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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

gee, yall ever think that maybe they're not a ppl person or they just dont like u .  hence why they keep it short or avoid u altogether?

it aint that deep, kim




Yes, but at some point does this behavior crossover to poor manners?
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

gee, yall ever think that maybe they're not a ppl person or they just dont like u .  hence why they keep it short or avoid u altogether?

it aint that deep, kim




Yes, but at some point does this behavior crossover to poor manners?
no, she was not face to face ignoring u.  You said she went to her office (next to yours) and didnt say anything.  Yall work in the same bldg, not office.  As long as she speaks when face to face its fine.  If not, then I think its bad manners. 

IA with greeting when u walk in a place, but if I dont see them, I'm not gonna seek them out to say it.  If the 1st I'm seeing u is at lunch, I'll say hello then.

Dont let it bother u tho
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

i'm cool with my co workers. the lines of communication stay open and we are like a little family tbh.
 
but not to derail, i have spoken on my brother's relationship with a white woman. this bish does not speak to anyone in our family and refuses to attend any of our family gatherings. i thought she was just shy at first so i would initiate the conversations with her but she was always very short and never looked me in the eye.
 
none of us in the family even bother to communicate with her anymore. fck her.


I can see why a lot of people equate shy/quiet with being rude. Two different things, but she is just straight up RUDE.
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I dislike most of my co-workers however I continue to address them when I see them.
I advise you to continue to speak, you shouldn't allow her lack of manners to affect you and I'm sure you don't want animosity while at work. 
Ill mannered people are more inviting of animosity so if you don't speak to her, she won't speak to you and then it'll be even more awkward. It's not really worth the trouble.
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ur one of those?
ugh.
i only speak when it's necessary.
saying hi and bye ain't necessary.
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What do you want to talk to this woman about other than work?


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I say Good Morning and Kim, my coworkers are snakes....we have nothing in common except a check deposited from the same employer....if a question is asked pertaining work I'm cordial anything else I'm mute.

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When working in an office full of people, I smile as I enter the door, then I make eye contact with most of them.
Canadians have it in their heads that they are the nicest people on the planet (HA!) so they will usually say good morning first, to which I always respond with 'Good morning how are you?' Or 'good morning everyone!'

If i was working with only 1 other person, that person is rude if they do not acknowledge me in the morning with a hey, hello, good morning etc.

I don't like unnecessary convo through out the work day though...as I am usually busy browsing BHM and don't want to be bothered with white ppl 'jokes' and fakeness.

Edited by Derri - Jan 07 2014 at 2:28pm
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