I don't have a problem asking a guy out
or paying for the first date. Reason being, guys are often
intimidated by beautiful women. Not to mention that if a guy is asking random
women out you need to run because all he's after is sex (any guy will confirm this theory). Moving on, now
the reason I don't mind paying for the first date is simple...spending $20 - $30 on a man makes a good first impression. It makes you stand out and makes him feel like you're not
after his money. Noteworthy, after the first date you need to make him pay for every date you all go on
up until the point that you're a couple and you feel comfortable
enough with him to sponsor an outing.