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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote iluvmihair Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 6:16am
I have to completely cut him off. I know it, I knew it, and yet I continued to let him suck me in. There is mental illness there for sure, but what can I do to help with that? I cannot save anyone that won't be saved, so I have to move on. This is not my responsibility! I'm not his mom nor his God nor his current gf, and I can't bear the weight of his issues right now. I told him I would be his friend, but I didn't want to hear about the past because that was over and I told him he could call me once a week. He calls/ text daily and he is still bringing up old issues that we had, and I mean we were babies! High school stupidity! So, it's obvious he isn't respecting my wishes, he is stalking my fb and ig and twitter trying to piece together his delusions about why we are no longer together and never will be again ("Oh, so that's the type of dudes you like? The one who liked your pic in 2009. No wonder you don't pick up my phone calls") and I just can't take it anymore. I'm super compassionate, but I have to do what's right for me and my sanity.
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It's very disappointing to find out that even though I was genuinely trying to help, with zero benefits for myself, that I have been back-stabbed.
I am just really disappointed.
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I hate having company...They never know when to go home Sleepy
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 14 2014 at 7:58pm
I have found out that when I get little to no sleep I am flat as hell all day.Disapprove
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I’m starting to think – and seriously believe – that I’m not well.  (I was going to say “unstable,” but I don’t think that’s accurate).  I’m constantly self-diagnosing – five minutes ago I was diagnosed with a variation of Munchausen Syndrome.  I’m questioning whether my issues are self-created and/or self-inflicted.  What if I’m so twisted that I’ve convinced myself that I was depressed, had OCPD, and MDD (I haven’t been officially diagnosed with that, but I’m not in denial about it). I don’t know.  I wanted to see a psychiatrist and get medication and my mother didn’t understand why.  Medicine isn’t the end-all-be-all and she doesn’t think that I should use it.  (She went on to say that it was ultimately my decision).  I’ve tried the traditional therapy without medicine and I’m still here.  But, the whole conversation made me think – maybe I’m standing in my own way.  If I really don’t have these problems, if they’re self-created, then doesn’t that mean that I can snap out of it at any time?

Is this denial? Confused

This reminds me of the time when I truly believed I was a medical mystery.  I had all of these symptoms – unexplainable symptoms – and all the while the doctors were telling me I was fine.  I started to believe that I created these symptoms and made myself believe they were occurring.  I was later diagnosed with a few things, so I guess that doesn’t count.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote eanaj5 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 15 2014 at 1:10am
this shouldnt hurt as much as it does...
it never should have been this way...
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i find a way to justify every fcked up thing i do.  i'm starting to see that having a high moral code really doesn't get you anywhere in the long run.  you still end up with exactly what you want.  but there are some codes that you have to stick to like being loving towards kids and animals, not being a backstabber, and not cursing at your mother...donate time, donate things, don't kill anyone.  as long as i stick to the code i can pretty much do everything else.  im keeping my needs first.  life is too short.
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Lmao that's a great list Wonderland.
Something about the mix of donating and not murdering made me laugh

Edited by jonesable - Jun 15 2014 at 7:39am
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I'm moving on. I have to do what's best for me and my sanity. 
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Between my job and my family, I never get to finish a sentence. As a result, I don't talk much and when I do, I get cut off.  What's the point?
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