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Originally posted by aNgElIc*SoUl aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:

It really hurts and bothers me how every man(from my "dad", boyfriends, and everybody in between) doesn't care about me, doesn't value me, and has failed and continues to fail me.

What did I do to deserve this? I've never felt love or protection from a man. I hope my future daughter never has to feel this way.
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im starting to feel like this wasnt a good idea...

on another note
i feel like acting up today...the victim will be random..
soo hopefully no one runs up in my inbox with foolery, or they finna catch this fire
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Originally posted by aNgElIc*SoUl aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:

It really hurts and bothers me how every man(from my "dad", boyfriends, and everybody in between) doesn't care about me, doesn't value me, and has failed and continues to fail me.

What did I do to deserve this? I've never felt love or protection from a man. I hope my future daughter never has to feel this way.


You are looking for love in the wrong person.
You did nothing to deserve it, they were not as _____ as you wanted them to be.


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I hate how the men in my family feel that it is OK to comment on a person's (MY!) weight gain.  Today my uncle, whom I seldom see and have very little interaction with, commented on the fact that I gained weight - and he could stand to lose a few.  My dad's done it, my brothers have, too.  I think that it's so offensive.  I developed an eating disorder when I was younger, as the result of being tormented (by male family members) about my weight/size.  I have been working on losing weight - the healthy way.  But, I still wonder why they feel that it's OK or their place to say anything.  It hurts.



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sometimes i appreciate the pmsing, moody, bitchy TOM...makes it easier to get some long overdue things done tbh...
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I have to completely cut him off. I know it, I knew it, and yet I continued to let him suck me in. There is mental illness there for sure, but what can I do to help with that? I cannot save anyone that won't be saved, so I have to move on. This is not my responsibility! I'm not his mom nor his God nor his current gf, and I can't bear the weight of his issues right now. I told him I would be his friend, but I didn't want to hear about the past because that was over and I told him he could call me once a week. He calls/ text daily and he is still bringing up old issues that we had, and I mean we were babies! High school stupidity! So, it's obvious he isn't respecting my wishes, he is stalking my fb and ig and twitter trying to piece together his delusions about why we are no longer together and never will be again ("Oh, so that's the type of dudes you like? The one who liked your pic in 2009. No wonder you don't pick up my phone calls") and I just can't take it anymore. I'm super compassionate, but I have to do what's right for me and my sanity.
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It's very disappointing to find out that even though I was genuinely trying to help, with zero benefits for myself, that I have been back-stabbed.
I am just really disappointed.
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I hate having company...They never know when to go home Sleepy
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I have found out that when I get little to no sleep I am flat as hell all day.Disapprove
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