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I'm selfish as fukc.

I know he wants marriage and more kids, but I have no interest in that. I know we genuinely love each other and want to be together, but I feel like he's hanging around hoping I'll eventually want to get married and have kids, and I'm hanging around hoping he'll decide that having just me with none of those extras will be enough.

In my defense, I told him from the jump I never wanted to get married and I didn't want kids.

To be honest, I could get married. I'm not against it, I just don't find it necessary. And there is no one else I wanna be with in the world. Plus, I'm sure God wouldn't be happy with my intentions to fornicate for the rest of my life. But WHY? Why can't we just be together and be happy, no ceremonies, paperwork, or other mess?

Kids are completely out of the question tho. He lays there rubbing my stomach talking bout having daughters that look like the perfect mixture of both of us, and I just give him the side eye from hell.

Sometimes I feel like I should free him so he can have that life he wants with someone else. But, I'm selfish and I want him.

Ugh... feels so good to vent! Can't talk to my best friend cuz she keeps going I'll magically wake up with maternal instincts and the desire for wedding bells.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (5) Thanks(5)   Quote niecy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 02 2013 at 1:41pm
The fact that I miss having companionship irks me. Especially knowing that I need to work on being content with being single before I worry about being in another relationship again.
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Shady ya better start checking them condoms for holesLOL
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Shady ya better start checking them condoms for holesLOL


Sad part is I just made an appointment Monday to get on birth control cuz he " casually" asked what would happen if I " accidentally" got pregnant cuz " you know condoms don't always work, bae".

In my head I was like, "I see you nicca".
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From the first post I was thinking, you might want to watch him....and this here is a bit alarming.
Guys trap women all the time....especially if he's infatuated and wants more than you are comfortable with. I broke up with someone after being in your very situation: I'm fine with dating and staying childless, he wants kids, marriage, rubbing my stomach, getting ultra clingy....Watch your back

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Shady ya better start checking them condoms for holesLOL


Sad part is I just made an appointment Monday to get on birth control cuz he " casually" asked what would happen if I " accidentally" got pregnant cuz " you know condoms don't always work, bae".

In my head I was like, "I see you nicca".
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i am such a hussie 


Details?

really wish i could but prying eyes be prying
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Katrenia Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 02 2013 at 3:56pm
At times, I hate my own jealous azz.

My ex worked with me and we've been flirting for years. No, we don't take it any further than that, I'm married.
When he was hired 3yrs ago, he stated that he would travel up to 40 miles or relocation. Our department has to make staff cuts so after he started dating co-worker, I suggested him for transfer. 

No shame.Approve

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Katrenia Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 02 2013 at 4:16pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

I'm selfish as fukc.

I know he wants marriage and more kids, but I have no interest in that. I know we genuinely love each other and want to be together, but I feel like he's hanging around hoping I'll eventually want to get married and have kids, and I'm hanging around hoping he'll decide that having just me with none of those extras will be enough.

In my defense, I told him from the jump I never wanted to get married and I didn't want kids.


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I don't think it's selfish when you've let it be known how you feel about kids and marriage. 

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Im super annoyed that my friend is coming over to get her hair curled and says she has her kid....hes 1....bish we aint tryna chase yo kid around all night.....no I aint tryna have him all in my room......and Im still unpacking my shyt......fuk made you think that was a good idea.....

Im supper annoyed by this.....


Woosah
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It is great to be loved and worshiped and yet not give a f*ck about the guy.
I feel powerful.
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