Confessions

I know some of y'all heifers like to judge, but oh well.

So, I originally posted this...

ShadyLady wrote: One of my good friends is currently dating my former cut buddy, and I haven't told her. In my defense, I didn't give a sh*t about him and don't care that they're dating. Our situation was over like 4 years ago. She REALLY likes him tho, and I feel telling her would ruin a good thing. They might have something real and I just used him for head.

After she admitted she really liked him, I started distancing myself from her cuz I was really on the fence about whether I should tell her or not. We didn't really talk often, I just enjoyed her company when we did talk.

Anyway, dude started calling my phone again, but I just never answered cuz I felt like we had nothing to discuss. Then a week before Christmas, I saw her in the mall and she just breezes past me like I didn't exist. I just figured she knew, was upset, and he was calling to warn me.

She called me outta the blue today. Come to find out, dude kept trying to persuade her to have a threesome and telling her to ask me(woulda been a waste if time cuz I don't indulge in thigh pie). She thought it was a red flag cuz he bought it up too often, she finally asked him what was his deal and he told her everything including some stuff about feelings and emotions I never even knew he had.

She ended things cuz he admitted he gave me oral (often), when apparently he told her he doesn't do that. She asked him if he would be willing to since they're dating and we were just kicking it, and he told her no .

Luckily, she says she's not mad I didn't tell her cuz she said she woulda kept dating him anyway.

ScorpioLuv wrote: ms_wonderland wrote: ShadyLady wrote: What do you use to master cleanse, Wonder? Oh, and I have an update on a confession...lemme go dig it up... the lemonade diet....organic lemons, organic maple syrup, cayenne pepper + water. not for the faint at heart.  it tastes fine but the taste does get old.  if i cheat while i'm on it then i just have fruit. How long can u keep up on it? I tried it once, but couldnt go for a long time when people decided to have bbq ribs and everything else. I couldnt do all veggies and fruit when I tried either for the same reason, lol.

ms_wonderland wrote: wow...what's wrong with her lady parts?   i couldnt be with a guy who went down on someone i know either.   ive been in a similar position and i didn't tell either.  waste of energy to.

I couldnt be with a guy that didnt go down. If u aint eating, we aint speakin

Shady, do you think he was using your friend to try to get back with you?

 scorpio...if you make it past day 3 you will love yourself for it!  have a banana and tough it out!  after day 3 it's mind over matter b/c you're really not hungry...for me i would just be bored and boredom=wanting food...like right now...im not hungry but damn these pretzels are good.