Confessions

niecy wrote: I wish I had someone who actually felt like I was worth fighting for since my s/o obviously doesnt feel that way. Like why would you even go so far as saying if I want you to you'll give up your rights to our child so you don't have to deal with the aftermath of the sh*t you've done to me. As much as I want to make things work IA with him as far as not dealing with each other outside of anything that has to do with our child. I don't understand people who swear they found what they were looking for in a SO yet they do sh*t to intentionally fck up what they have. After dealing with him it honestly makes me want to spend the rest of my life alone rather than be in any other relationships. Plus I honestly never saw myself not being with the father of my child and while I'm not about to try to force things to work out just because we have a child together I dont want to be one of those chicks with more than one baby daddy either. I would rather all my kids have the same father.

gurl, you aint NEVA lied. The bold is how I felt in my last relationship/how i'm feeling now

Niecy 

niecy wrote: ScorpioLuv wrote: niecy wrote: ScorpioLuv wrote: How long have you guys been together? 3 years You guys should have a serious talk. Ask him if he wants to let the last 3 years go to waste. I'm sure those years included blood, sweat and tears. He seems to be forgetting that. Him and his "know it all self" is ruining that. Slap him with a picture of reality I've tried. At this point I'm just wasting my breath since he's quick to holler about how he doesn't want to hear it. He would rather me suck it up and take his bullsh*t than let him know that there are certain things I won't tolerate. Honestly he acts like the female in the relationship at times in that he runs crying to his friends talking sh*t about me rather than taking his issues up with me so we can fix them.

Damn

Edited by ScorpioLuv - Jan 06 2013 at 5:33pm

True Derri. At this point my biggest concern is, like you said, him being a good father. His comment about giving up his rights so that we don't have to deal with each other really bothered me because it makes me wonder if he will be there like he should but one can only hope for the best though. Whatever happens will happen 

You're pregnant. You have to be in an emotionally balanced place. Don't take on any of the things you can't control right now. The baby sucks up all of your emotions and he/she can be born miserable or sad or stressed if you are too. You have an opportunity now to share all of your values and growth with someone, it's a beautiful thing. An extension of you--our influence and brilliance. Enjoy that. It's a blessing. 

Edited by Derri - Jan 06 2013 at 5:55pm