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 Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:12am |
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Don't feel bad Scorp, seriously. When I was younger, I upgraded a man from nada and never ever again. It was draining trying to "fix" him, I wasn't his momma but I sure felt like it. The best decision I ever made was to let him go, It was such a huge burden lifted off my shoulders. We still remained friends and all that, even through our friendship he was still needy. |
I know that's right! At least most of yall knew yall were in a build a nicca workshop I was hoodwinked 
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:14am |
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I sabotage relationships. Not purposely, but I hate feeling like I'm not in control. So whenever I feel myself falling, the walls go up. What's really freaking me the fawk out, is this guy is actually hanging around and putting up with my bs. Dude got me shook.
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:16am |
Babydoll9163 wrote:
I sabotage relationships. Not purposely, but I hate feeling like I'm not in control. So whenever I feel myself falling, the walls go up. What's really freaking me the fawk out, is this guy is actually hanging around and putting up with my bs. Dude got me shook.
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You gotta fix that. he'll get tired eventually. i've been there. im still amazed at the things he put up with, but then again i put up with a lot myself
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:22am |
I know. I'm trying to but it's so hard to trust guys these days. These dudes really ain't sh*t. And a close friend of mine isn't helping. I look at her relationship and really get scared. Long story short, she thought she was in a committed, monogamous relationship and found out her bf has been cheating from the start. For years, he's been cheating and she never had him to herself. I don't want that to be me 
I do have to say, he is helping me let my guard down. But it's a slow process.
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:36am |
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You gotta let your guard down and take the risk Baby.
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:43am |
yeah it is very scary out there 
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i have a legit fear of checking my bank account total after i drop sh*t tons of money
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:29pm |
Got my eyebrows donnneeeeee  Now to wax the kitty! Meow! Meowww~ I could have posted this in random thoughts but whatever lol
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:31pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
yeah it is very scary out there
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it actually is. if i'm single again, i feel sorry for the man who will be dating me. all perks are out the door. i will feel the same way, BD. there are guys out there who are tired of being played with too...so hopefully he's a straight up guy.
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Occasionally, I wish I were dumber. It's a brief, insincere desire.
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