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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:27pm
That's great Scorpio!! Clap You seemed so miserable with him.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

yaaaaaaaaaaaay scorpio! youre off the leash. 

do you feel a lot better like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders? 

when he said yall should take a break how exactly did you respond? 

im happy if youre happy 
I responded calmly. When I suggested the idea he shot it down, saying it felt like he would be losing me for good. I half feel like I can deeply exhale and the other half hopes I didnt just break his heart. He's in love with me, but he's seen me go from happy-go-lucky to me not caring as much/being disappointed/annoyed, like I gave up. He knows I feel like someone was playing a joke on me and why. As I said before, he's an amazing person but he knows his faults and is desperately trying to change them. 
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Thanks to everyone for your advice. Hug

Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going  to see the doctor/dentist.

We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months. 

im glad you thought of yourself.
i hope god keeps your safe Hug and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs
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I part feel bad though, he's told me and I know he'd be there for me through thick and thin, no matter what the cause or issue but he feels as if I wouldnt do the same. That I would abandon him bc of this sex issue and that Im so focused on getting my nursing license that everything else/him isnt even an after thought bc if you ask me about what I want in my future my answer is my degree. Ouch


ETA: Idk, maybe this was a blessing in disguise, he's so stressed right now, has problems coming from all directions. I dont think I was making it any easier. He's doing so much, its understandable why he was having his issue, stress. Idk, from that talk we had earlier to him calling me a hour later and changing his mind, I part feel bad now Ouch


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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Thanks to everyone for your advice. Hug

Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going  to see the doctor/dentist.

We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months. 

im glad you thought of yourself.
i hope god keeps your safe Hug and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs
Thank u Hug
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I part feel bad though, he's told me and I know he'd be there for me through thick and thin, no matter what the cause or issue but he feels as if I wouldnt do the same. That I would abandon him bc of this sex issue and that Im so focused on getting my nursing license that everything else/him isnt even an after thought bc if you ask me about what I want in my future my answer is my degree. Ouch


ETA: Idk, maybe this was a blessing in disguise, he's so stressed right now, has problems coming from all directions. I dont think I was making it any easier. He's doing so much, its understandable why he was having his issue, stress. Idk, from that talk we had earlier to him calling me a hour later and changing his mind, I part feel bad now Ouch


that sort of sacrifice is earned...not just given imo.
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How I detest surprisesCry

My boo told me yesterday that he's back in town for the holidays, and that he wanted needed to see me ASAP. I was just telling my friends on Saturday that it'd be a Christmas Miracle if he just happened to come back in town, but dammit I didnt really mean itCry.

The problem is that I feel like I am significantly less attractive than I was when he left. I dunno why though, I lost some weight, my hair is longer and softer, and my skin is clearer. I just feel fat and ugly, and had that nicca told me he was coming when we talked on Thanksgiving, I could've started with the yoga and everything and just uuuuuuuuuuuuggghhhhhhahljgknhsd,fhgdlfjgldnbkmDisapprove

I cant even see him until next week because I had already made plans, so at least I have time to mentally prepare. GAH, body image issue suck.Sleepy


Im probably just bloated and this was probably just a period-hormone fueled rant.

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Me and my lil sister were going to make 2am cookies but I see my boo tomorrow and that post made me halt the plan lol.

I have lost a little weight during the past month and change so I'm just gonna ease up for tonight and go HAM tomorrow at dinner
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I'm kinda bossy but not in a bad way I don't think.

Like when we go out to eat I strongly suggest he doesn't order pasta , or anything I don't like bc I need to be able to sample off his plate too

He is awful at sharing

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i can be a eal biotch sometimes
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