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 Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:27pm |
That's great Scorpio!!  You seemed so miserable with him.
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:31pm |
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yaaaaaaaaaaaay scorpio! youre off the leash.
do you feel a lot better like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders?
when he said yall should take a break how exactly did you respond?
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I responded calmly. When I suggested the idea he shot it down, saying it felt like he would be losing me for good. I half feel like I can deeply exhale and the other half hopes I didnt just break his heart. He's in love with me, but he's seen me go from happy-go-lucky to me not caring as much/being disappointed/annoyed, like I gave up. He knows I feel like someone was playing a joke on me and why. As I said before, he's an amazing person but he knows his faults and is desperately trying to change them.
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:34pm |
ScorpioLuv wrote:
Thanks to everyone for your advice. 
Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going to see the doctor/dentist.
We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months.
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im glad you thought of yourself. i hope god keeps your safe and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:44pm |
I part feel bad though, he's told me and I know he'd be there for me through thick and thin, no matter what the cause or issue but he feels as if I wouldnt do the same. That I would abandon him bc of this sex issue and that Im so focused on getting my nursing license that everything else/him isnt even an after thought bc if you ask me about what I want in my future my answer is my degree. 
ETA: Idk, maybe this was a blessing in disguise, he's so stressed right now, has problems coming from all directions. I dont think I was making it any easier. He's doing so much, its understandable why he was having his issue, stress. Idk, from that talk we had earlier to him calling me a hour later and changing his mind, I part feel bad now
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:46pm |
EPITOME wrote:
ScorpioLuv wrote:
Thanks to everyone for your advice.
Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going to see the doctor/dentist.
We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months.
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im glad you thought of yourself. i hope god keeps your safe and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs |
Thank u
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:52pm |
ScorpioLuv wrote:
I part feel bad though, he's told me and I know he'd be there for me through thick and thin, no matter what the cause or issue but he feels as if I wouldnt do the same. That I would abandon him bc of this sex issue and that Im so focused on getting my nursing license that everything else/him isnt even an after thought bc if you ask me about what I want in my future my answer is my degree.
ETA: Idk, maybe this was a blessing in disguise, he's so stressed right now, has problems coming from all directions. I dont think I was making it any easier. He's doing so much, its understandable why he was having his issue, stress. Idk, from that talk we had earlier to him calling me a hour later and changing his mind, I part feel bad now |
that sort of sacrifice is earned...not just given imo.
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:58am |
How I detest surprises 
My boo told me yesterday that he's back in town for the holidays, and that he wanted needed to see me ASAP. I was just telling my friends on Saturday that it'd be a Christmas Miracle if he just happened to come back in town, but dammit I didnt really mean it .
The problem is that I feel like I am significantly less attractive than I was when he left. I dunno why though, I lost some weight, my hair is longer and softer, and my skin is clearer. I just feel fat and ugly, and had that nicca told me he was coming when we talked on Thanksgiving, I could've started with the yoga and everything and just uuuuuuuuuuuuggghhhhhhahljgknhsd,fhgdlfjgldnbkm 
I cant even see him until next week because I had already made plans, so at least I have time to mentally prepare. GAH, body image issue suck. 
Im probably just bloated and this was probably just a period-hormone fueled rant.
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Me and my lil sister were going to make 2am cookies but I see my boo tomorrow and that post made me halt the plan lol.
I have lost a little weight during the past month and change so I'm just gonna ease up for tonight and go HAM tomorrow at dinner
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 1:03am |
I'm kinda bossy but not in a bad way I don't think. Like when we go out to eat I strongly suggest he doesn't order pasta , or anything I don't like bc I need to be able to sample off his plate too He is awful at sharing
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 1:09am |
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i can be a eal biotch sometimes
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