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Thanks to everyone for your advice. Hug

Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going  to see the doctor/dentist.

We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months. 


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I want to make a vent thread but it'll make me look pathetic... And bhm never forgets
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^ do it. I got your back lol 
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yaaaaaaaaaaaay scorpio! youre off the leash. 

do you feel a lot better like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders? 

when he said yall should take a break how exactly did you respond? 

im happy if youre happy 
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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

I want to make a vent thread but it'll make me look pathetic... And bhm never forgets
LOL don't do it yet, I'm twisting my hair tonight and I don't want to miss it. 
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That's great Scorpio!! Clap You seemed so miserable with him.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

yaaaaaaaaaaaay scorpio! youre off the leash. 

do you feel a lot better like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders? 

when he said yall should take a break how exactly did you respond? 

im happy if youre happy 
I responded calmly. When I suggested the idea he shot it down, saying it felt like he would be losing me for good. I half feel like I can deeply exhale and the other half hopes I didnt just break his heart. He's in love with me, but he's seen me go from happy-go-lucky to me not caring as much/being disappointed/annoyed, like I gave up. He knows I feel like someone was playing a joke on me and why. As I said before, he's an amazing person but he knows his faults and is desperately trying to change them. 
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Thanks to everyone for your advice. Hug

Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going  to see the doctor/dentist.

We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months. 

im glad you thought of yourself.
i hope god keeps your safe Hug and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs
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I part feel bad though, he's told me and I know he'd be there for me through thick and thin, no matter what the cause or issue but he feels as if I wouldnt do the same. That I would abandon him bc of this sex issue and that Im so focused on getting my nursing license that everything else/him isnt even an after thought bc if you ask me about what I want in my future my answer is my degree. Ouch


ETA: Idk, maybe this was a blessing in disguise, he's so stressed right now, has problems coming from all directions. I dont think I was making it any easier. He's doing so much, its understandable why he was having his issue, stress. Idk, from that talk we had earlier to him calling me a hour later and changing his mind, I part feel bad now Ouch


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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Thanks to everyone for your advice. Hug

Ive relayed the info about the vitamins and hes going to continue working out, losing weight and going  to see the doctor/dentist.

We decided to take a break bc he sees Im unhappy and doesnt want me to stay that way. Im still going to be his friend and be supportive of him. We agreed to try again in 6 months. 

im glad you thought of yourself.
i hope god keeps your safe Hug and that you're able to find someone that fulfills all of your needs
Thank u Hug
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