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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote MinnyMiss16 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 19 2014 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I want to do webcam pics lol no im like so serious but I have a brother and I know he watches pics so yeaaaa I gotta find a different side hustle

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I really hate when people accuse me of playing the victim. The fact is there is just some shyt I will never get over, and yes bytch I will continue to tell you about everything you did to hurt me. I don't care if you're tired of hearing it and feel like our relationship should be rainbows and lollipops after everything you've said and done to me.

What do you guys think? Do I sound like a victim or just not an easily forgiving person?
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they just want you to make their life easier, keep reminding them angelic.
that's what i really WANT to say

but then there's a new side of me acknowledging that rehashing the past just gives me the ability to replay the event to where i don't feel victimized and I can dictate how the conversation goes, essentially trying to get some power back...but the person will never say or do anything good enough to make me forget or move on, so it's just hindering me from moving on.  Ah, it's hard to be the bigger person, but sometimes we have to.  you're not a victim, you're just mad and probably rightfully.
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Yea. . . . but at what point are you just beating a dead horse? Restating a problem over an over again does nothing to bring about a solution.
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Sometimes I want to shake the sh*t out of my people....Like wake the f*ck up!! Don't you see what's going on around you? Why are you letting them pull a wool over your eyes? Why don't you care about your own people??

I'm living in Coon Land...I swear...

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 25 2014 at 3:03am
i feel like if you choose to continue fcking with the person… at some point you gotta let sht go.. 

youre giving them another chance (i assume.. and im speaking from my situations too) so its like give them a fresh start.

easier said then done though.. im trying to do that but if i see examples of the same sht of course im gonna speak on it cus youre supposed to be all changed and sht. 

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damn, i was doing some serious cyber stalking last night...found out some interesting things.


I found out the only other guy i've lived with(and fiancee for xx days) is now married.  They say when you go searching for things you find things you don't want to see, but I honestly felt refreshed like I dodged a huge bullet.  I thought I was going to get that feeling in my stomach for some reason, but I didn't.  I was looking through his sister's instagram seeing all the old friends and family thinking thank God I didn't end up saddled in that life.  I should do stuff like this more often just to re-affirm decisions I've made.


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I hate that I've become such a negative nancy lately but it's kind of hard not to when it seems like everything has been going wrong lately. I've already been having a hard time finding a job lately and now that I'm without a car that makes it that much harder to find one. Now I'm limited to just local jobs which leaves me with very few options since I live in a small town and basically the only jobs around here are jobs that require some type of degree or technical license or sucky McDonald's type jobs which I've applied for out of desperation but to no avail. 

Right now my only option is pretty much to just focus on school and keep it moving. Luckily I do have a little bit of income although it's barely enough to get by but I have to make do with what I can until I do find a job I guess. In the mean time I'll continue to save up towards getting another car as well as moving out when I do have the extra funds to do so.
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Today I discovered my mom looks exactly like bernie mac Cry the body ,hair cut and goatee shes like 20 times darker them him too 
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keeping how i feel a secret is really starting to eat away at me. But revealing my feelings will be even worse. The lesser of two evils is the victor
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