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hmm, do you feel like they cant help you with your issues or that they will judge?
And hun, please dont take this the wrong way i'm genuinely curious but:

why in the world are you friends with them if you dont feel a connection with them? Confused
Are they just "good time" friends?
Were they a group together and then you joined in, like the new kid syndrome?
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My eyes are bloodshot red
I've been crying all day
I'm such an emotional wreck

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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by dOLLish. dOLLish. wrote:

Originally posted by acaraway acaraway wrote:

Originally posted by dOLLish. dOLLish. wrote:

  • I'm so socially awkward, it's not even funny. I try to hold conversations, but it's so weird and awkward (or at least it is IMO). I feel as if I can't relate. I try to, but I always fall short.
  • I have issues. I'm aware that I have issues, but I'm not ready to share these issues with everyone (or even a handful of people in my life)

That's how I feel, sometimes with people I'm already friends with. I don't even bother any more.
It's worse when you're awkward around people you're already friends (or friendly) with. You expect to be passed that stage of awkwardness.
 
I feel bad because I actually try. I make the effort, but I always feel stupid in the end. Cry

I know how you feel. I usually stay quiet during group conversations either for fear of saying something to make myself look dumb or because people tend to talk over me like I'm not there when I do try to give my input in conversations. I doubt that's what you meant though. As far as sharing your issues with other people don't feel bad about not being able to share them with others. People these never forget. They always throw things in your face when they get pissed.
ITA with the bolded.
 
 
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

My eyes are bloodshot red
I've been crying all day
I'm such an emotional wreck

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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

hmm, do you feel like they cant help you with your issues or that they will judge?
And hun, please dont take this the wrong way i'm genuinely curious but:

why in the world are you friends with them if you dont feel a connection with them? Confused
Are they just "good time" friends?
Were they a group together and then you joined in, like the new kid syndrome?
 
Frankly, both. My issues are difficult for most people to understand, especially if they haven't experienced it themselves. Even if they have, there's no guarantee that our experiences will be the same (as you know, people respond to things differently). I also think people judge what they don't understand.
 
I don't feel a connection with anyone. They're no different. They're not good time friends or a group I joined. I guess in my twisted world, it was better to have a few friends than to have no friends.
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

My eyes are bloodshot red
I've been crying all day
I'm such an emotional wreck
 
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Ohhh, okay, i think i understand. Aww Doll, I know that the world can be scary and people can be cruel, but you shouldnt feel like you have to carry all of your burdens all by yourself. Have you thought about researching online about support groups for your issues? Maybe you could open up there until you feel comfortable sharing your experiences in real life. It's always good to have a support system. Hug
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