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Any of yall who think BSB is better than NSYNC are some fools

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I dont necessarily believe that talking to them is all it takes and that they will suddenly have an epiphany and change their ways.. but i dont think that she should just give up either. 
but as i said, depends on their age. 

As an older sibling you can tell them what to do.. everyone that i know who has a younger sibling and there is more than a few years difference.. they listen to them at least a little. Im not saying she should order them around but they might actually value her opinion somewhere deep inside and eventually she might be able to help them. 


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Skittles, you weren't you like 4 when Spice Girls came out? Imma keep messing with you about your age.LOL

..................................MEANS NOTHING THOUGH! Stern Smile

Young mom at work + being watched by 14 year old cousin = I KNOW WHAT IM TALMBOUT!!!!!!Stern Smile


It's obvious that you dont wannabe my loverSleepy
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:


Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Any of yall who think BSB is better than NSYNC are some fools


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You won't even old enough for this sh*t. I was in the 6-8th grade, you were 7. Sit your little ass down somewhere
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At some point she has to quit focusing on them and focus on herself. I'm not implying Jess should be like "eff them" and disappear, but like I said you get over giving people advice that they don't use. Especially if you have to keep repeating the same advice over and over. Her sibs are adults who can and will do what they want.

You can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped. Some people only learn when life smacks them in the face. As long as big sis is there to save the day they'll think they can do whatever they want without consequence and eventually they will use and abuse her (if they aren't already). Trust me, this is coming from much experience.

Ironically coco, this convo is demonstrating exactly what I'm saying. Both of us think we know what we're talking about and are trying to convince the other. Neither is changing their position and after we log off both of us will continue to think we're right. The same thing goes on with siblings. Your age doesn't matter when people think they know the truth.

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coco as an older sibling I honestly know first hand that just because I tell my siblings something that doesnt mean they listen to me just because Im the oldest. Like babydoll said you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. Even though they are Jess's siblings there is only so much she can do especially if she said they are grown. If they were kids she could probably influence them a little easier but being that they are adults its up to them to make the best decisions regarding their lives. She's their sister not their parent she cant focus her attention on trying to help them all the time.

After a while it becomes like talking to a brick wall. You can only beat a dead horse for so long before realizing you will keep getting the same results every time.


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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:


Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Any of yall who think BSB is better than NSYNC are some fools


I could say so much, but I wont...







You won't even old enough for this sh*t. I was in the 6-8th grade, you were 7. Sit your little ass down somewhere

LOL Even though I aint much older than Skittles
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tell you parents. and tell them real stuff. 
don't sugarcoat it. you will always be their older sister. 
i think if you work with your parents, you can probably see a better result. 


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Y'all need to take a seat before you break a hip.

Hope you're not sore from that nostalgic dance party last nightStern Smile

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World peace my arse! Sleepy

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