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oh fairy Hug

whats your height and weight if you dont mind me asking? 

have you tried healthy high calorie foods/snacks? 


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I'm in love with coco

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@ Jess

Coco, I'm 5'9 and 128, it's hard eating healthy living on campus, but I'll still try, because my health isn't very good
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I wish I was your weight FairyQueen^^
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ugh, sometimes i hate pinterest. it makes me feel fat and uncrafty and poor. 
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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

I'm in love with coco

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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

@ Jess

Coco, I'm 5'9 and 128, it's hard eating healthy living on campus, but I'll still try, because my health isn't very good

if youve been dealing with this for a while than you probably already know this.. 
but nuts nut nuts 
theyre healthy, high calorie, and cheap

have you tried squats, lunges, single legged dead lifts, etc? 
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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

I hate complaining, especially when ppl suffer through worse things, but sometimes I can't help it. Incoming vent

I really loathe my figure. Shake what your mama gave you they said. Well she kept it all for her self, so I'm stuck with my manly body: wide shoulders, no hips, or ass, and a waist that won't curve. And add some lovely chicken legs

I'm tired of seeing stuff like "real women have curves" and "guys don't like skinny girls, cuz they have nothing to grab onto" and using "the body of a 13 year old boy" to describe someone with my body type. It makes me feel unnattractive, unsexy, and undesirable. And somehow not black enough?

Everyone thinks its ok to make fun of the way I look, my friends make fun of my lack of ass, my ex tried to give me advice on my diet so I'd gain weight, my coworkers love pointing out how thin my legs are, my dance teacher had too many jokes about how I'm her only black girl and I don't have an ass... My mom's boyfriends told me me that I'd have a better time finding a boyfriend if I gain weight.

One guy said I could be a perfect 10 if I had a "bad body" I guess face<<<body

If I see one more poem about the beauty of black women on tumblr that mentions "the wide span of our hips" I'm gonna scream.

I tried gaining weight, I gained 10lbs of extra back and stomach fat and a prediabetic condition. So I had to lose the weight.

I also hate when people tell me, "oh you'll gain weight when you're older/get pregnant"
Um no I want to feel/look attractive more now when I'm young, wtf?

Lets not forget all this scientific evidence that shows men are attracted to a curvy shape because it symbolizes fertility. Ok

Despite my unpopular opinion ( for the folk i know were going to bring it up Ermm)
girl there are plenty of men who like slim girls!
At the end of the day you have to work with what you were given.
Have you tried changing your wardrobe around?
Sometimes clothes can make all the difference
Please remember that looks are indeed temporary
Focus on getting healthy instead and the other things will come!
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Aww, Fairy!

I'm skinny as hell too and always have been.  People used to make fun of my lack of boobs so I feel your pain. Ouch The prevalence of curvy video girls at the time I was growing up didn't help either.  It did make me feel "less black" as I didn't have what the video models and typical black girls are supposed to have. Now that I'm older, I feel a bit better than I did then though I have not gained any weight and am the same size.  I hope it gets better for you!   
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