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I'm afraid of most forms of conflict. Most people who know me think its the other way around because I never let my fear show.
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I had a To Catch a Predator Moment today...I think.Cry

I was helping a customer shop and this fine man comes walking towards us. So fine. I get my sexy face ready

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And then I see him hand his clothes to his...mommy. Oh crap.Cry

He looks legal...but he is shopping with his mommy.
He has a full goatee, stubble and nice skin...but he is shopping with his mommy.
He's tall(6ft+), nice body, grown fashion sense and fine as hell...but he is shopping with his mommy.
A co-worker asked him how is school...co-worker never specified college or HS.Cry

I had to err on the side of caution but lawd he was fine. Maybe he was 19 y'all?

*Scrubs self to feel clean*

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Im gonna pull an all nighter to write these papers. Papers that I could, theoretically, be done with in the next 5 hrs.

My anxiety causes me to procrastinate, which in turn causes more anxiety when I have less time to finish something. It's a nasty ass cycle, and Im surprised that I've managed to succeed academically despite it. 
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i dont keep secrets from my bestfriend..
but right now I'm hiding something big from her and its eating me alive.
I'm going to tell her xmas-- so I'm avoiding her until then- to keep me from spilling my guts.
She keeps texting me-- asking if I'm mad at her- why I'm not spending my last days w/ her.

I put down 1/2 the amount she needs for her reception...
for the place she had written off b/c she said it cost to much-- although its everything she dreamed of.
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Im gonna pull an all nighter to write these papers. Papers that I could, theoretically, be done with in the next 5 hrs.

My anxiety causes me to procrastinate, which in turn causes more anxiety when I have less time to finish something. It's a nasty ass cycle, and Im surprised that I've managed to succeed academically despite it. 

would u mind elaborating?
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Eanaj's avi drives me nuts because it reminds me of my samoan crush LOL

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i resent my mother 
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Im gonna pull an all nighter to write these papers. Papers that I could, theoretically, be done with in the next 5 hrs.

My anxiety causes me to procrastinate, which in turn causes more anxiety when I have less time to finish something. It's a nasty ass cycle, and Im surprised that I've managed to succeed academically despite it. 

would u mind elaborating?

It's kind of like performance anxiety. Even though I consistently do good work, I still fear that this new paper or this new project will be the one that's sh*tty. Then I think about how my grade in the class would be effected. Then I think about how that grade would effect my GPA for the semester. Then I think about how my semester GPA will effect my overall GPA. Then I think about how my overall GPA will effect my chances of getting into a good grad school. Then I think about my job prospects if I couldnt get into a good grad school. Then I think about...

So, to stop all that linear thinking, I get on BHM, or Tumblr, or facebook, or read a few blog posts, or look at a few instagram pics, or act like the inside of my cup is the most interesting thing ever, or text someone who ends up telling me that I need to finish my work.

I've literally been doing this since 11amPST. It's now 9:31pm.Disapprove
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damn homie, i sympathize.
but you must have a little faith in your abilities.
maybe set aside a 10 min break for every 30 min of work you do.
im trying to follow something like this, its helping somewhat
git.dat.A.gurhl.!
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*Reads Skittles Posts*


If you never write the paper, you'll never get into grad school so get to work Skittles! You're almost done.Tongue
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