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510QUEEN 
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 Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 1:42pm |
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this is getting comical and really has me thinking everyone hasn't been introduced to common sense.
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sexibeach
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 1:45pm |
 freedom76 wrote:
Well we don't know if he catfished her. BUT I feel he probably wasn't that excited about spending time with her. Most men (that I know of) will do WHATEVER to get them drawls if they wanted it. A measly plane ticket (which they probably have points for), hotel (which they probably have points for), dinner and nighttime fun is NOTHING. So regardless if I have my own money, I probably wouldn't spend a dime. I don't apologize for it either. She sounds like a person that just got caught up in the fantasy.
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that's exactly what I'm saying if he really wanted to spend time with you he'd make the effort and spend that money.. he didn't want this chick..
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 1:50pm |
Finesseful wrote:
I agree men should foot the bill, but if you don't know somebody like that, you need to take some precautions. This was poor groupieying. She needs to go back to the drawing board or find another profession.
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 That's the bottomline. This groupie really should of had a plan B...I have no sympathy this any woman acting this stupid and desperate.
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 1:57pm |
iGotSunshine wrote:
women are foolish when it comes to men w/ money my ex had women taking him to ruth's chris and buying him clothes to prove that they were "different" he hasn't wifed up one yet
she probably wanted him to think she wasnt after his money and it backfired |
I know someone who went thru this with a rapper. She really was golddigging, but she called herself spending her own money so he would think she wasn't after his pockets. She even showed up to a pool party that his friends were throwing with bottles that they'd requested and weed she paid for outta pocket. Next thing you know, she saw on some blog that he was in Miami and didn't even bother to tell her. She called and texted him about getting into the party he was hosting on the beach that night, and he never even bothered to respond. She never heard from his ass again. I'll be damned if I buy $600 worth of liq on my dime for a paid nicca.
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:01pm |
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Women have been conned into thinking they need to prove themselves to men. Any time we try to step into that role, it backfires on us generally speaking. When men feel they don't have to do sh*t, they stop caring.
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:02pm |
haha... im thinking this has less to do with her paying her own way... Its good that she payed her own way...
she was just super thirsty and probably booked the ticket before he gave her confirmation that it was ok to purchase it.
I'm on Garden Leave Nita, you should come through and hang out
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:05pm |
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I re-read the article. The writer says that a friend of hers contacted her to help the girl out. If that was her friend's friend--why couldn't HE help her out? I know that if one of my friends were stranded, I would get them a flight, bus ticket, room--whatever it was they needed. I wouldn't call on someone else to help them. Did this even really happen?
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:07pm |
ok so i just saw his picture... 
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:08pm |
EPITOME wrote:
just like you should carry cash on you in case a nig.ga acts up on a dateyou should carry cash w/o in case you get stranded at the airport it's really quite simple |
my people's term for this is vexation money ... never go anywhere with anyone without it 
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:09pm |
bigsexylisa wrote:
I re-read the article. The writer says that a friend of hers contacted her to help the girl out. If that was her friend's friend--why couldn't HE help her out? I know that if one of my friends were stranded, I would get them a flight, bus ticket, room--whatever it was they needed. I wouldn't call on someone else to help them. Did this even really happen? |
He might not have been in Atlanta.
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