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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i dont think this is harsh enough punishment… 

she has to go to a class for slandering your good name..? she should have gotten something worse. 

did she ever say why she knew it was you..? 
 
I don't know what she has to do. We had one meeting together then the rest of our meetings were separate. My entire team has to go to a code of conduct class but besides that, I don't really know.
 
I'm not tripping because I'm on my way outta this job and NY period. Eh
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Ole girl is asian......that ups the chances of sympathy.....lol
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


damn that sucks

well I will fight the urge to curse even harder now


Or not admit to the cursing out.

Woulda had them thinking she lied about that just like she lied about the stealing in the first place.

Woulda turned on the crocodile tears , accused that b!tch of character assassination, and said she's out to get me.
 
This is what I'm saying.  You wanna lie... we can all lie.  She keeps involving me in her scenarios, I don't know if she has issues or what?  Blah blah blah.
 
The alternative is to call them out with witnesses in a non cursing way.  Just let them know.
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Hol' up, AC you admitted to cursing her out?
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Girl you don't admit NOTHING to yt folk EVER. Let them pull the GOTDAMN tapes!

Listen, don't ever do this again. When Asia said you cussed her, you say I did no such thing. I'm not sure why you are targeting me as a liar and a thief but I don't like it. I just want to come to work and meet my goal, I don't want be involved in situations like these. My mom has stage 4 cancer and I just have too much going on to be dealing with this type of petty stuff.

Is it personal Asia? Why on earth would you accuse me of all people? I don't bother anyone and I've always been polite to you? *looks at hr in confusion* I just don't get it,I would hate to state the obvious.

AC you have to play their game, you don't do that First 48 putting yourself at the scene of the crime. Let them pull the tapes and since there are non in the bathroom IT DIDN'T HAPPEN.
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^^^^This right here....
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Herwoman in here spitting that fiyah.
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I love how diabolical you ladies are. Im learning
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Years ago, when I was a leasing consultant I told my boss something had to be done and she didn't do it. Then this b!tch had the audacity to tell the VP of the entire fukcin company that I was the one who made a $5200 mistake.

Luckily I had been there longer than her so they knew my track record, plus I had conversation logs and an e-mail to back me up. They asked her why she would say that I hadn't told her, and she came up with some bullish!t ass "I forgot" *eyeroll*

I caught that b!tch by the pool where the cameras weren't working and told her if I had lost my job behind her bull, that woulda been her ass.

She ran back and told them that too. Two+ years of great work, winning an award, and never letting them see my ratchet side vs. a b!tch who cost them $5200 AND had just got caught in a lie.

She ain't want it with Shady no mo after that.
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This whole thing pissed me off.

Please listen to herwoman's advice and never admit to cussing someone out.   You tell them I'm sorry she felt that way and act shocked.  She did this to herself and did not/does not deserve to have her hurting butt acknowledged.  I hope she gets fired before you leave so you can watch you cry her way out the door. 
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