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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye


This. It doesn't matter that you approached her privately...she is messing with your PROFESSIONAL reputation and credibility. I would indeed ask for a public apology in front of everyone. 

from now on, she does not exist to you... ive found the best way to get under someone's skin and make them feel uncomfortable is act like they are not even in the room. walk into a room...speak to everyone but her, walk down the hallway - look through her and don't say ish, sit directly across from her in a meeting - stare her down until all she can do is look down. She wants to call you a thief - steal her relevance at work.
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should have went to HR.
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye






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It worked out fine and I told no lies.
 
I said that I shouldn't have cursed her out but it was an emotional moment after being slandered for absolutely no reason at all. The HR manager, my manager and the department lead all said that they understood but would not tolerate such behavior in the future. Then they went off on her saying that she should know better, there's a code of conduct and that's not how we operate.
 
My office held a meeting this morning and she apologized for spreading rumors. Now we all have to go through a code of conduct boot camp for two days next week.
 
I have to go to a professionalism course on Monday.
 
For now that's it.
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

It worked out fine and I told no lies.
 

I said that I shouldn't have cursed her out but it was an emotional moment after being slandered for absolutely no reason at all. The HR manager, my manager and the department lead all said that they understood but would not tolerate such behavior in the future. Then they went off on her saying that she should know better, there's a code of conduct and that's not how we operate.

 

My office held a meeting this morning and she apologized for spreading rumors. Now we all have to go through a code of conduct boot camp for two days next week.

 

I have to go to a professionalism course on Monday.

 

For now that's it.


Wait, does the liar have to go through the professionalism course too?
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Didn't read but it ain't worth it, let it go. 
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she has to go through something else. they had a separate meeting with her and we don't talk
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damn that sucks

well I will fight the urge to curse even harder now
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smh... good thing you weren't punished, just annoyed

when i was younger and someone did something to me, id just do it back cause it was simpler. the person who initiated it always told after i punched them back and i always got in trouble. ive never been the kinda person who needed help solving a problem like that, until now. seems like you have to tell first then punch her in the head. now i get it smh
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I think going to a training class is"punishment"

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