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It worked out fine and I told no lies.
 
I said that I shouldn't have cursed her out but it was an emotional moment after being slandered for absolutely no reason at all. The HR manager, my manager and the department lead all said that they understood but would not tolerate such behavior in the future. Then they went off on her saying that she should know better, there's a code of conduct and that's not how we operate.
 
My office held a meeting this morning and she apologized for spreading rumors. Now we all have to go through a code of conduct boot camp for two days next week.
 
I have to go to a professionalism course on Monday.
 
For now that's it.
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

It worked out fine and I told no lies.
 

I said that I shouldn't have cursed her out but it was an emotional moment after being slandered for absolutely no reason at all. The HR manager, my manager and the department lead all said that they understood but would not tolerate such behavior in the future. Then they went off on her saying that she should know better, there's a code of conduct and that's not how we operate.

 

My office held a meeting this morning and she apologized for spreading rumors. Now we all have to go through a code of conduct boot camp for two days next week.

 

I have to go to a professionalism course on Monday.

 

For now that's it.


Wait, does the liar have to go through the professionalism course too?
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Didn't read but it ain't worth it, let it go. 
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she has to go through something else. they had a separate meeting with her and we don't talk
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smh... good thing you weren't punished, just annoyed

when i was younger and someone did something to me, id just do it back cause it was simpler. the person who initiated it always told after i punched them back and i always got in trouble. ive never been the kinda person who needed help solving a problem like that, until now. seems like you have to tell first then punch her in the head. now i get it smh
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I kinda think so too but i guess it can be a positive, in the long run lol also i didn't wanna rile amilia up
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I think going to a training class is"punishment"

 
i'm cool with it
 
i already got my FY performance review so i'm not tripping
 
my mama had to cool me down yesterday before the meeting bc i told her if i get fired for this i'd go out like cleo in set it off
 
aint nobody trippin
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LOL i aint studying BHM, I got enough real life drama to let ish go
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Shoulda cried like white women do.
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Hyperventilating and sh*t...

you felt scared for your safety
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