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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

nvm i already cursed her out


LOLGood Luck. I almost cursed out one out the other day, but thankful didn't. I am dealing with this  same issue.Dead I read some of it, nope telling others you steal that's rude, words would be say that day.


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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye

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Yep and that's just for calling me a thief. That's nothing *shrugs*
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Originally posted by MinnyMiss16 MinnyMiss16 wrote:

(This is what I would tell you if you were my sister/best friend)
That was a test.....we've all been tested in life and Amilia you failed. If you dont want her to ever be able to take away what you've built , then dont put yourself in that situation. She can report the cursing out because you ACTUALLY did it and most likely really get you fired. I hope you're a good liar and I also hope that everything works in your favor.
 
 
 
 
If they get the bottom of it... tapes, whatever, and OP is shown NOT to have stolen her money and they know she lied/falsley accused, then comes the "curse her?  What?  This lady has a problem with me apparently and she is making my work environment VERY uncomfortable...."
 
Yeah.  Tables can turn.  Don't forget to make your lip quiver ever so slightly as you're saying it too.


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I swear I love all you ignant ass O's from the bottom of my heart
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye


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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye


This. It doesn't matter that you approached her privately...she is messing with your PROFESSIONAL reputation and credibility. I would indeed ask for a public apology in front of everyone. 

from now on, she does not exist to you... ive found the best way to get under someone's skin and make them feel uncomfortable is act like they are not even in the room. walk into a room...speak to everyone but her, walk down the hallway - look through her and don't say ish, sit directly across from her in a meeting - stare her down until all she can do is look down. She wants to call you a thief - steal her relevance at work.
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should have went to HR.
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I would not have addressed her at all, I would have gone to my superior and his/her superior and demand they check the tapes. After they check the tapes, I need an apology in front of my superior and then I need a team meeting addressing false claims and office gossip. I would then take the time to tell Asiana that I have accepted her apology but in the future would appreciate more professionalism from her. That way my team knows she lied without me having to go tell all of them personally.

I would wait 6 months and have a ride or die fucc her car up,cause a bitch like me can't let shyt go. I wouldn't rest until I got revenge on that ass somehow. She would be getting pizza and Chinese food delivered to her house every Saturday morning until I ran out of restaurants to order from. Fuccing racist bitch! I'm mad as hell and it ain't even me. Stealing? Girl bye






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