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i remember when my bro had his done...i dont remember him being in a lot of pain. i just remember his underwear were bloody. ugh..

that being said. i would've had it done for my son but it was way too expensive...

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I no longer think its a good idea! I dont have a son! but when I do I feel the choice should be up to him. SO NO I WONT CUT HIM! I think its a myth that its unclean... if you teach them how to clean it then it will stay clean!
The more I learn about FMG! which is the female version of circumision in other parts of the world the more, I believe cutting childrens privates is wrong...Ouch many of the beliefs surounding FMG include- myths such as women {being unclean} or {God demanding it} and the myths are just untrue leaving many women with a lifetime of pain and mutilation. Who is to say just because this is our tradition that male circumsion is not along the same lines what if them men are missing somethig because of it...


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It is just like a clitoris. When u pull back the skin its BRIGHT pink lol.

Yall needs to stop being prudes

I shall not be circumsising (sp?) My sons. But I hope to have girls
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I would circumcise my son. I wouldn't even date another uncut man. Many don't know how to clean themselves and smegma stinks. I shouldn't be able to smell when u have a hard on
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I would circumcise my son. I wouldn't even date another uncut man. Many don't know how to clean themselves and smegma stinks. I shouldn't be able to smell when u have a hard on


ewww...i aint eva smelled thatDead

maybe i should send my ex's mom a "thanks for teaching your son how to wash his d!ck" card
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What is smegma?
By the way I just messaged my brother's wife and she said she was scared when she 1st saw it, she admitted it was ugly and she said it didn't smell. She also said if their next child is a boy she wouldn't have it done. If my husband wasn't circumscribed I would feel more comfortable skipping it.

If I knew for a fact that Jesus is coming back before my child gets married I wouldn't have it done.
Judge me, but that's the truth. I don't want his wife to be repulsed by him.

I love my husband more than I can say, but if he was not circumcised there are a lot of things I would refuse to do and I will leave it at that. I don't want my son to go through that.

I am still talking to friends who have little boys and I am getting a pretty mixed response, which surprises me. I was not aware until recently how many people are opting out of having this done for their newborns. I will come back and let you all know what my final decision is when the time comes.
He is due in 5 weeks so I still have some time to pray about this and do more research. I didn't give it a 2nd thought until my doula sent me that darn link Disapprove
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I would circumcise my son. I wouldn't even date another uncut man. Many don't know how to clean themselves and smegma stinks. I shouldn't be able to smell when u have a hard on


ewww...i aint eva smelled thatDead

maybe i should send my ex's mom a "thanks for teaching your son how to wash his d!ck" card



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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

I no longer think its a good idea! I dont have a son! but when I do I feel the choice should be up to him. SO NO I WONT CUT HIM! I think its a myth that its unclean... if you teach them how to clean it then it will stay clean!
The more I learn about FMG! which is the female version of circumision in other parts of the world the more, I believe cutting childrens privates is wrong...Ouch many of the beliefs surounding FMG include- myths such as women {being unclean} or {God demanding it} and the myths are just untrue leaving many women with a lifetime of pain and mutilation. Who is to say just because this is our tradition that male circumsion is not along the same lines what if them men are missing somethig because of it...
Are you comparing the two? Because they aren't in the same realms...
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My sons will be. I watched one done in nursing school. Poor baby. CryCry
 
ETA: I've unfortunately seen many uncirmcised penises (not by choice, but from work), and yeah, I'd rather have to deal with the cut ones....they're typically cleaner, and easier to put a foley in lol!


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