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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 6:49pm
Children change a marriage but they don't ruin it. IMO - I think it's usually men who feel threatened because they're not getting all the attention anymore. My husband and I went throught that about 4 months after our first - that was 11+ years ago.  He had to work through it and get over it

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 7:05pm
Let me tell you. Only selfish people would say that, man or woman.
 
Some of these people will say work ruins marriages.
Some of these people will say money ruins marriages.
Some of these people will say friends ruins marriages.
 
 
The people who ruin marriages are the ones who uses these excuses.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 7:30pm
blame it on the child got ya actin wild
blame it on the rent money dat ya spent
blame it on bad coo oo o oo ooch blame it on bad coooooochie

she know what ran dat mad off....jk jk

outside chillen can rin a marriage, children at the wrong time can ruin a marriage, but they didnt ask to be here, dont want them wrap it up, sew it up, cut it off, or keep it closed..

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 8:46pm
Sometimes children do ruin marriages. There a a number of ways that this can happen and I have seen it happen before.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 8:50pm

Children dont ruin nothing but their new clothes playing in dirt. If she's a mom, I hope she doesnt resent her children.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 9:01pm
no I don't believe this: HAVING CHILDREN doesn't but if you have a man (or woman) with bad azz kids from a previous marriage that are evil and hate you (or anyone that's not the other parent) CAN ruin your marriage....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2009 at 8:51am
My mum is convinced that Kimora's daughter Aoki is gonna ruin Kimora and Djimon Honsou's relationship Stern%20Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2009 at 8:59am
I can't stand kids and i would never say that.
 
she need to take responsibility.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2009 at 9:02am
Originally posted by Sinnamon_Mami Sinnamon_Mami wrote:

no I don't believe this: HAVING CHILDREN doesn't but if you have a man (or woman) with bad azz kids from a previous marriage that are evil and hate you (or anyone that's not the other parent) CAN ruin your marriage....


 This i agree with ... children that are of not "of the marriage" or biologically the children of both spouses can sometimes ruin a marriage.

 

 I know someone who "left" her husband because of her child ... she's going back to her husband when her child is old enough to leave home.Ouch


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2009 at 9:04am
^^ that is sick
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