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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 10:58am
Originally posted by tallcake tallcake wrote:

Adults who behave like children ruin marriages 
 
 
I totally agree.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 10:58am
People who think like that are sad.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 11:02am

I have read studies that support that (bias or not).

The little boogers donít necessarily help.  I think they definitely highlight or strain any weakness you have within a marriage.

 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 11:02am
Who told her she had to have kids in the first place if she didn't want them?  Those kids are going to shoulder her anger, I just know it, and that's not fair to them.

So apparently, if having children ruins a marriage, then whose fault is that for helping to create them in the first place???  People need to evaluate the reasons they have for wanting children.  It'll save a lot of heartache.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 11:13am
if she's saying what i think she's saying then i can see how having kids can ruin a relationship. Not the children themselves, but everything that goes into raising a child can be exhausting.

I know what Im trying to say but Im too tired to have it make any more sense than i just did. sorry
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 4:55pm
I have heard this statement before...I think there is some truth to it.  I don't think people mean that the actual child ruins the marriage but all that is involved in raising the child can create a lot of problems in a marriage - (finances, involvement  or over involvement in child's activities, differences in parenting/disciplining, etc.).  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 4:57pm
Originally posted by Mrs. October Mrs. October wrote:

I have heard this statement before...I think there is some truth to it.  I don't think people mean that the actual child ruins the marriage but all that is involved in raising the child can create a lot of problems in a marriage - (finances, involvement  or over involvement in child's activities, differences in parenting/disciplining, etc.).  


Completely Agree !
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 4:58pm
OT But Meangirl your baby is absolutely gorgeous.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 4:59pm
Especially if the woman can't put her husband first or at least make time for him.....like she did when the kids did not exist.....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2009 at 5:06pm
No No and hell no... Kids do not ruin marriages... People have to realize that they probably had problems in the beginning and having children just makes things more stressful, but like I said the problems have to be there in the beginning...
 
Having children is stressful on any relationship but does it ruin it.. not at all... People need to get over their selfishness and realize it's not about them anymore... it's about the child...
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