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Points: 90835 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 09 2014 at 4:49pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Kids need spankings its good for them. they are supposed to look hurt, that's why its a punishment don't fall for that "she's too cute to punish" mess because if she act up at 2 and you don't wanna put them hands on her now imagine when she's 12...kids that haven't been beat are the worst. handle it now and get her used to having that fear of mama


I never was beaten.

 a beating and spanking are not the same thing
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A pop on the thigh won't hurt her.
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Some parents have no idea what a pop means . I see babies with broken bones and serious fractures at the age in the ER often . Some are DOA . I am tired of parents talking about they only pop the baby . I am going to leave the topic . JMO .
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#teambeatdatass. My niece made a fool out of us a few weeks ago throwing a huge tantrum and she was also a big two (she's three now). Their dad barely disciplines them and they are spoiled and entitled as hell.
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Is it a reason that the child father discipline more than you???
I mean do you feel guilty when you chastise her???
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2 seems awful young for a spanking
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#teamsupernanny LOL
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I pop my baby's hands when she gets violent with her tantrums (ie...she throws a tantrum and throws something). Throwing things, hitting people is so not cool. When she throws a nonviolent tantrum, I just carry on and ignore her until she realizes that I'm not going to give in to what she wants.
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All I know is, I seriously hate the sounds associated with a tantrum. A whining-cry does something to my soul

So, I'll just hope my kids are like me and don't do that sh*t.

I think I'll def read some books on discipline. I need to avoid that sound by any means necessary
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Her dad is pretty light with it. His mom thinks she needs the spankings, talking about a switch.
I was spanked but only one good time I can remember...
My mom doesn't hit her grandchildren I've rarely seen it, unless they get really crazy, the older ones.
So in my house no one get's hit. 
She'll get a pop from me, but I more so believe in just letting her go to her room by herself for a little while, but she just whales, it breaks my heart honestly.

I think she just likes being at home as well, she hasn't been acting up at all since she's been at my parents house & her cousins are all there for the summer, and she has her grandma...

I feel to blame because we don't have our own place and I can tell she just loves her home (at my parents) way more than being anywhere else...


Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

I'm going through the "Terrible Twos" as well and my mom says I should spank my son. Me and pops says no. Hell no actually.

I have wanted to swat at him but I noticed it's only when I'm getting really frustrated and impatient. And disciplining when angry is something I've never wanted to do.

When does she act up the most? My little one is a terror when he's sleepy. So making sure he stays on his sleep schedule has helped out. And ignoring him has helped out even more. Once he realizes mama ain't phased, he moves on to something else. Good luck OP.

Same with her mainly when she is tired, she will fight it SOO hard.
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