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    Posted: Jun 09 2014 at 11:16am
My 2 year old she talks walks and acts like a 4 year old. So when she throw tantrums people look at me crazy because she looks older.

Any who her grandma says we should spank her ( that how she raised her children), she does get spankings, but I just feel like if shes crying already why would I spank her and make her cry more she's not going to stop.
I put her in her room by herself, and she does get hit sometimes, her dad does it more than me.

I just feel like shes only 2 as well, she just looks so hurt and sad. 


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Kids need spankings its good for them. they are supposed to look hurt, that's why its a punishment don't fall for that "she's too cute to punish" mess because if she act up at 2 and you don't wanna put them hands on her now imagine when she's 12...kids that haven't been beat are the worst. handle it now and get her used to having that fear of mama
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Do you feel a certain way about her dad hitting her?
Do you still live at home with parents or relatives?
Why is she having these tantrums?


Tantrums only work when you have given in to them, children are smarter than people give them credit for. 

The only persons opinion that should matter on the discipline of your child is you.



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spanking a 2 year old is counter productive, imho..

the best method is to put her in timeout for about 2mins and explain why or take away a toy/snack.
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Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Kids need spankings its good for them. they are supposed to look hurt, that's why its a punishment  don't fall for that "she's too cute to punish" mess because if she act up at 2 and you don't wanna put them hands on her now imagine when she's 12...kids that haven't been beat are the worst. handle it now and get her used to having that fear of mama

That's what she just told me, imagine if I can't control her now how it will be when she's 7 or 12.

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Do you feel a certain way about her dad hitting her?
Do you still live at home with parents or relatives?
Why is she having these tantrums?


Tantrums only work when you have given in to them, children are smarter than people give them credit for. 

The only persons opinion that should matter on the discipline of your child is you.




I do feel some way when she's crying so hard already and then he gives her a pop.
Yes we both live with our parents, we go over to his home when we're spending time, usually no one is there then.
Lately it's been when she can't have a juice, or can't take a shower/bath when she wants. We haven't been letting her take as many baths because she is sick and just went to the doctor, she'll take 3 baths/showers in a day if we let her.
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There is so much I want to say but it will come off as shade so I wish you guys the best. 

I will say this though, if he pops her cause she crying cause she can't have a juice I am giving you the serious side eye. 
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

spanking a 2 year old is counter productive, imho..

the best method is to put her in timeout for about 2mins and explain why or take away a toy/snack.

Lmao.
They won't understand that at two.
They understand pain though.
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I don't like giving advice on child rearing, but it is called

"The terrible two's", so you're not alone.


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Originally posted by Benni Benni wrote:

it is called

"The terrible two's"

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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

spanking a 2 year old is counter productive, imho..

the best method is to put her in timeout for about 2mins and explain why or take away a toy/snack.

Lmao.
They won't understand that at two.
They understand pain though.
this is true. i popped  plenty of hands in my day and all of that acting crazy has stopped.
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