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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by sistagal sistagal wrote:

Get a job or two?

My mother looked after 2 of us WITHOUT child support. She can handle hers if she manages her money correctly. Basically ensures that the $200 at least goes for the child. Put it aside in an account because it is theirs. Any emergencies for the child would not be a shock for her budget that way.

Some people struggle because they have issues with priorities. They're out there paying $500 for hair & complaining about I have bills to pay. 

Maybe cut on child care by planning around close family members so they help you out. Cut on shopping expenses etc. 

LoL why do women think they are proving something by sacrificing and struggling all their lives to let a dead beat dad get away with not tending to his responsibilities? As if it makes someone less than a woman to see to it that a man takes care of his own child. I'm sorry but to me that is hood mentality. I don't believe in lettin niccas slide. Pay up. Niccas these days got it too easy.

I'm also against failing to provide for your children because you spend more time chasing after a dead beat. 

I wasn't being FOR men getting away with it but more FOR women not needing to rely on that money. If you don't want to let him slide fair enough.. but just at least know that if he does happen to, he's not your only option. 
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*waits for OP to answer Southern's question as to why her "friend" deserves all the child support she is entitled to but her BF's baby mama doesn't*
 
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Ima need folks to stop having kids they cant afford in 2013
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i thought this thread would be bigger, did op come back
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Im at walmart waiting on some dang tv to go on sale so ill entertain this foolishness....maybe OP's "friend" this time is her boyfriend's baby mama from the previous thread
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Ima need folks to stop having kids they cant afford in 2013
 
Not going to happen as long as SOME people continue to have this "teen/unwed pregnancy isn't a big deal" mentality.
 
It suddenly beomes a "big deal"when it's time to pay for raising the kids.
 
 Dafuk you think was going to happen? Most time the sorry azz 'dad' has kids by other women he ain't paying for..
 
and hell no, I'm not talking about same sex or single parent adoption/widows/widowers/divorcees raising kids..
 
 
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

so if your friend deserves all she can, why doesn't your boyfriend's baby mama?
 

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The situation and circumstances are different!
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Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

The situation and circumstances are different!


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