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Originally posted by sistagal sistagal wrote:

Get a job or two?

My mother looked after 2 of us WITHOUT child support. She can handle hers if she manages her money correctly. Basically ensures that the $200 at least goes for the child. Put it aside in an account because it is theirs. Any emergencies for the child would not be a shock for her budget that way.

Some people struggle because they have issues with priorities. They're out there paying $500 for hair & complaining about I have bills to pay. 

Maybe cut on child care by planning around close family members so they help you out. Cut on shopping expenses etc. 

LoL why do women think they are proving something by sacrificing and struggling all their lives to let a dead beat dad get away with not tending to his responsibilities? As if it makes someone less than a woman to see to it that a man takes care of his own child. I'm sorry but to me that is hood mentality. I don't believe in lettin niccas slide. Pay up. Niccas these days got it too easy.
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have we collectively decided to ban this one?
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Your "friend," eh?


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Like I said in the other thread you are too nosey and you need a life. Its ok to be supportive of your "friend" and deadbeat bf but they need to figure out their own way. If they aren't making a thread you shouldn't either!
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Originally posted by healthyhair42012 healthyhair42012 wrote:

Like I said in the other thread you are too nosey and you need a life. Its ok to be supportive of your "friend" and deadbeat bf but they need to figure out their own way. If they aren't making a thread you shouldn't either!

bravo, shawty!!! Thanks for making this known. Watermelon needs to come up in here and read some of dis.
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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by sistagal sistagal wrote:

Get a job or two?

My mother looked after 2 of us WITHOUT child support. She can handle hers if she manages her money correctly. Basically ensures that the $200 at least goes for the child. Put it aside in an account because it is theirs. Any emergencies for the child would not be a shock for her budget that way.

Some people struggle because they have issues with priorities. They're out there paying $500 for hair & complaining about I have bills to pay. 

Maybe cut on child care by planning around close family members so they help you out. Cut on shopping expenses etc. 

LoL why do women think they are proving something by sacrificing and struggling all their lives to let a dead beat dad get away with not tending to his responsibilities? As if it makes someone less than a woman to see to it that a man takes care of his own child. I'm sorry but to me that is hood mentality. I don't believe in lettin niccas slide. Pay up. Niccas these days got it too easy.


All of this.
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

so if your friend deserves all she can, why doesn't your boyfriend's baby mama?
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Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Your "friend," eh?
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Originally posted by healthyhair42012 healthyhair42012 wrote:

Like I said in the other thread you are too nosey and you need a life. Its ok to be supportive of your "friend" and deadbeat bf but they need to figure out their own way. If they aren't making a thread you shouldn't either!







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And I wouldn't be worried about this nonsense on Thanksgiving....
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