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    Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 4:40am
Unfortunately, I never learned this and wanted to get some opinions. 
This should be posted under relationship but I wanna talk about this!

How do you know when a guy is trying to just "get some" as opposed to the "night going well"...

I went on a date with this guy tonight. At first the date started out well; good convo, opens doors, he pays etc...but then next thing you know, he's making moves way too early! Damnn did dinner go that great?

What happened to the sweet and respectful guy I was talking to at dinner??

Now I feel bad turning him down so its an awkward mess of me asking him if I gave him the wrong impression because I'm just trying to know him...

Hands off shoulders and "its getting late, I should drive you home".

Hmmmm...Confused
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Did you go to his house? Never go to a guy's house unless you really know him or plan on having sex with him.

(Inb4 rape culture/victim blaming. Sleepy)
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I really did...

I guess I thought that if I kept to the main level and kept things friendly.


I could tell he wasnt interested in talking anymore though.

I feel dumb!
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house date?

wheredeydodatat?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

house date?

wheredeydodatat?

I thought she meant she went back to his house after dinner.

EDIT: Oh wait, you were being messy. My bad.


Edited by starflower7 - Nov 17 2012 at 5:11am
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You should have gone home if you weren't dtf. 
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You went to his private cave?

Don't ever do that again with a man you don't know/barely know.
And don't fall for a man inviting you to his house to "chill."

Lesson learned!
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that didn't read to me like she went to his house for dinner but went to his house afterwards. tbh....I always assume that's the case. *shrugs*   But don't ever go to a man's house tho.  Gives the wrong impression.  If u guys had a good time and want the date to last ......go find something else in public to do.  If u invite him in at your place or go to his house....no.   

oh and.........he mad cause he thought he was gone smash cause u went to his house.  Don't do that ever again.   If he don't want to talk to u after this then K.I.M.  Like midna said....lesson learned.   U can't ever really tell what's in a man's mind but in these situations......assume that he tryna get it.   He's on a date with u because he likes the way u look...not because he wants to be friends.


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Although I agree that going to a guys house is a bad idea. It is sad that two full grown adults cannot spend time together is privacy without the woman having to agree to sex.

SMH @ not being able to take a man seriously when he says he wants to spend time with you.

U2B even though you should keep this experience in mind for the future, don't think you did anything wrong by wanting to spend more time with him.

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I don't let guys come to my dorm room after a certain time.

Edited by 313chick - Nov 17 2012 at 10:36am
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