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    Posted: May 20 2010 at 3:27pm
Do you think you should?

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?

What does catering to him mean to you?


Do you find it demeaning?

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because?

Where are you from?

Did you grow up with you father?


I ask the last because a guy once told me women who did not grow up with their dads are disrespectful and can not take care of their man??

I am just curious no offense ladies?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 3:41pm
Originally posted by disrupteddiamon disrupteddiamon wrote:

Do you think you should? If you love someone why not? I also think  catering is a two way street. One person doing all the giving and one person doing ALL the taking is called - using.
 
 I happen to love that song by the way.
 
Let me cater to you, do anything for my man...I put my life in your hands.

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband? Husband. I can't fathom going out of my way for a fly by.

What does catering to him mean to you?  Helping him out when needed or before I he expresses he needs help. For example, last night my dh was changing his truck battery and I held the flashlight over the hood for him so he could see better. Smile


Do you find it demeaning? No, but then again I'm not clipping toenails or wiping his butt b/c he's just plain lazy and wants to be catered to. 

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because?  Just because. I hate when people do things and it's not from the heart.

Where are you from?  America by way of New Awlins currently in Cali.

Did you grow up with you father?  Yes, and step-dad.


I ask the last because a guy once told me women who did not grow up with their dads are disrespectful and can not take care of their man?? Hmmm, I know a young lady who didn't grow up with her Dad and she really caters to her man fixing his bath water, cooking him chittlins, braiding his hair and keeping the house spotless... and anything else he likes.

I am just curious no offense ladies?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 3:50pm
Do you think you should?
Yes

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?
The relationship determines the extent.

What does catering to him mean to you?
Providing an environment that makes a man feel like a king.

Do you find it demeaning?
Only if he's not putting in effort to make me feel like a queen.  If things are one-sided, it's time to reevaluate the relationship.

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because?
To show love and appreciation.
Where are you from?
The Midwest

Did you grow up with you father?
Yes


Edited by carameljawnrb - May 20 2010 at 3:52pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 3:59pm
Originally posted by disrupteddiamon disrupteddiamon wrote:

Do you think you should?
YES IF HE IS A GOOD MAN
Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?
NO BUT IM MARRIED AND HAVE NEVER CATERED TO ANY1 LIKE I DO NOW

What does catering to him mean to you? COOKING, BACK RUBS, FOOT RUBS, CLEANING HIS "AREA" WITH A WARM CLOTH AFTER SEX, BREAKFAST IN BED, BODY MASSAGES, BATHING HIM, CLIP HIS TOE NAILS...AND HE ALWAYS RETURNS THE FAVORS


Do you find it demeaning? NO

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because?JUST BECAUSE AND BECAUSE I KNOW IT MAKES HIM FEEL "SPECIAL" 

Where are you from? HALF JAMAICAN, HALF AMERICAN FROM MIAMI,FL

Did you grow up with you father? I DID BUT HE WENT TO PRISON WHEN I WAS 6 AND DIDN'T GET RELEASED UNTIL I WAS 17 THEN WAS DEPORTED BACK TO JAMAICA


I ask the last because a guy once told me women who did not grow up with their dads are disrespectful and can not take care of their man??
NI99A PLZ (JUST AN OPINION BUT IT SEEMS LIKE IT WOULD BE THE OTHER WAY AROUND..LIKE A WOMAN WOULD WANT TO TAKE CARE OF A MAN EVEN MORE IF DADDY WASN'T THERE...THATS NOT HOW I FEEL BUT IT SEEMS LOGICAL)
I am just curious no offense ladies?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 4:09pm
Originally posted by disrupteddiamon disrupteddiamon wrote:

Do you think you should? Depends if he's a good hard working attentive to my needs type of man then YES

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband? Not really

What does catering to him mean to you? Making him feel appreciated


Do you find it demeaning? No only if the man is demanding and doesn't appreciate it

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because? No i'd do it just because

Where are you from? NYC

Did you grow up with you father? Nope.


I ask the last because a guy once told me women who did not grow up with their dads are disrespectful and can not take care of their man?? Not True

I am just curious no offense ladies?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 4:10pm
Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

Originally posted by disrupteddiamon disrupteddiamon wrote:


What does catering to him mean to you? COOKING, BACK RUBS, FOOT RUBS, CLEANING HIS "AREA" WITH A WARM CLOTH AFTER SEX, BREAKFAST IN BED, BODY MASSAGES, BATHING HIM, CLIP HIS TOE NAILS...AND HE ALWAYS RETURNS THE FAVORS


Well you go girl! Got me over here slipping big time, rofl.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 4:35pm
Do you think you should? Yes, why not?

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?
No it doesnt matter 

What does catering to him mean to you? Do him like favors, make him feel loved, cared and important in my life.

Do you find it demeaning? NO

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because? Just because

Where are you from?  Costa Rica

Did you grow up with you father? Yes


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 5:11pm
Do you think you should? Yes

Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband? After a year, no

What does catering to him mean to you? Cook, clean, back & arms massage, clip finger nails, wash his hair & braid it if its long, treat him to a night out, head LOL


Do you find it demeaning? If it feels one-sided... 

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because? Just because (some things NEED to be done cuz I'm sick of lookin at it)

Where are you from? Michigan 

Did you grow up with you father? Yes 


I ask the last because a guy once told me women who did not grow up with their dads are disrespectful and can not take care of their man??
 He shouldn't generalize

I am just curious no offense ladies?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 6:59pm
Do you think you should? sure
 
Does it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?
nope

What does catering to him mean to you? massages, random blow jobs if I feel like it Tongue, and i lovew to bake so brownies, cookies and cakes here and there

Do you find it demeaning? no

Is your catering with intent of gain or just because? if he loves and cares for me and treats me with respect...then ill do the same. why not?

Where are you from?  america

Did you grow up with you father? yes
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2010 at 10:20pm
Originally posted by carameljawnrb carameljawnrb wrote:

Do you think you should?
YesDoes it matter if he is a boyfriend or husband?

The relationship determines the extent.What does catering to him mean to you? Providing an environment that makes a man feel like a king.Do you find it demeaning?

Only if he's not putting in effort to make me feel like a queen. If things are one-sided, it's time to reevaluate the relationship.Is your catering with intent of gain or just because?

To show love andappreciation.

Where are you from?

The MidwestDid you grow up with you father? Yes


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