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Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

But he even says in that post that he isnt even talking about cat calling. A completely different subject.
That was in reference to my post about triggers
 
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Stare at em , look away.
Talk or ignore doesn't matter.

Some ppl will try it and some ppl are crazy.

These are not normal responses to rejection.
These men are disturbed that's all.
I completely agree
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote _ConcreteRose_ Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2013 at 10:17pm
Oh I see. Yeah, the thing is, generally, people try to rationalize their actions no matter how stupid. They don't see it as harassing and coming off threatening to women, they see only that they got turned down and (in their mind) they didn't deserve it. It's entitlement really.
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As a woman in this world you are not safe. All you can do is try to avoid situations by driving as much as possible, removing yourself from the situation, and carrying something to protect yourself.

All strange men are threats, point blank period. Most known men are threats as well. Never let your guard down and arm yourself.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote mizzsandra00 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 1:54am
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

The 400 years of oppression that our ppl had to endure is the cause of his behavior.  <span style="line-height: 1.4;">
i can't stand you though... LOL</span>


I swear


Bear spray....and a knife.....
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote eanaj5 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:59am
smh, this happens frequently.
Recently I was walking to the mall from campus and was on the side walk, there was construction up the street on my side so i would have to cross eventually.
There was a man standing on the opposite side of the street on the phone, he paused his convo and tried to flag me down as i was walking. I looked over, realized what was about to happen and continued to walk.
He started walking parallel to my direction, still talking on the phone and i stopped at a crosswalk, just to make sure he wasnt following me.
This clown stopped, waited 3 lights, still talking on the phone and trying to get my attention

I had to cross the street because i came to the part where they were doing construction on my side so i stopped, pretended to look through my phone. I turned around and started walking back th way i came and sure enough he followed on the other side. I stopped when i saw a guy who was clearly disturbed on my side at another crosswalk. I was trapped btween two crazies.

I just jay walked in the middle of traffic back toward the way of the mall and tried to hurry before the guy on the phone caught up. He tried flagging me down again and i waved him away. I had to keep looking back to make sure he didnt follow me.

Luckily along the way there was a little shop that sold blades, i bought one STAT.

Brothas be cray yall...

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Just brought some mace last weekend...all I need is a switchblade and I'm good.
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What is this persistence to harass someone who doesn't want to give you any attention?!?! Crazy...
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foid card...on January 1st.

Edited by Nisha - Dec 28 2013 at 11:45am
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Get you a nail studded bat and carry it with at all time.  It's whack-a-fool season starting now.  But if your aim is off, then get some mace and enroll in some self-defense classes.
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Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

Do yall make eye contact with people as you walk? For some reason I think that makes them think it's OK.
 
I'm sorry this happend to you Femme.
 
To answer this question, I do make eye contact depending on the situation along with a look that says" wtf you looking at " it has worked and I often find when you make eye contact they often get cowardly.
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