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rickysrose 
Platinum Member
Joined: Jun 28 2006
Location: Qualia
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Points: 247396
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 Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 12:02am |
Hmm I e-care
ie I wouldnt like it if I was "hacked" and someone misrepresented me, cussed everyone out, made statements that didn't matched my beliefs, basically acted a fool
And I don't think there's a member that I wouldn't care if something happened to them
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rickysrose
Platinum Member
Joined: Jun 28 2006
Location: Qualia
Status: Offline
Points: 247396
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 12:13am |
Career wise, I care enough to protect my reputation
I want my family happy, proud, feel comfortable enough to confide in me and have confidence in me, respect me, love me and vice versa ... so much more but yes I care
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afrokock
Elite Member
Joined: May 19 2008
Location: South London
Status: Offline
Points: 1266521
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 1:15am |
 Sang Froid wrote:
Everyone cares. |
at one point or another ... We all do
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Lady ICE
Elite Member
Joined: Jun 07 2007
Location: Gotham City
Status: Offline
Points: 278957
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 4:11am |
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no i dont care. i cant be worried about what folks think about me. my mom is worried about that kinda thing. which is funny cause she taught me to not care... oh well.
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BBpants
Elite Member
Joined: Aug 24 2011
Location: No1curr
Status: Offline
Points: 214912
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 4:25am |
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I care....I would prefer not to care but that's not how my brain works.
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K_Camille
Elite Member
Joined: Sep 14 2012
Location: IMOL
Status: Offline
Points: 59530
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 7:16am |
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What BB and Sang said.
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nekamarie83
Elite Member
Joined: Dec 28 2008
Status: Offline
Points: 169430
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 8:03am |
Yes, so I put my best foot forward-- online, offline, familiar, strangers, blah, blah, blah… However, I don't control others' perception and they will believe what they want. This has been proven. 
sbrownie84 wrote:
Or is it about not giving a damn, being who you are? |
As far as this, I've witnessed that people tend to confuse their tactless existences with honesty/being "real"/being bad ass/etc. One can be thoughtful/respectful/give a damn and still be authentic to self/others. Just sayin. It presents as defensive, insecure and emotionally exhausting the effort people put into maintaining the facade.
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newin2009
VIP Member
Joined: Feb 03 2009
Location: US - Tennessee
Status: Offline
Points: 8386
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 8:25am |
afrokock wrote:
Sang Froid wrote:
Everyone cares. |
at one point or another ... We all do |
yep!
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Samoneisthebest
Elite Member
Joined: Jan 02 2009
Status: Offline
Points: 44287
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 9:45am |
nekamarie83 wrote:
Yes, so I put my best foot forward-- online, offline, familiar, strangers, blah, blah, blah…
However, I don't control others' perception and they will believe what they want. This has been proven.
sbrownie84 wrote:
Or is it about not giving a damn, being who you are? |
As far as this, I've witnessed that people tend to confuse their tactless existences with honesty/being "real"/being bad ass/etc.
One can be thoughtful/respectful/give a damn and still be authentic to self/others. Just sayin.
It presents as defensive, insecure and emotionally exhausting the effort people put into maintaining the facade. |
This is me. I don't behave the way people think that I should, so they talk about me. No1curr.
If I act like I don't give a damn about you, its because I don't and I don't even feel like wasting my energy to fake it.
I give nary of a f*ck if my existence is seen as "tactful". I do what I want.
The only people I care about their perceptions of me are my immediate family and my closest friends and even then its limited. Cause at the end of the day I'm still gonna do what I want.
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Wildfire
Elite Member
Joined: May 27 2006
Location: Kingston, JA.
Status: Offline
Points: 90836
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Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 10:05am |
in my experience, the people who say they dont care, care the most.I care, but there are times i have have to make myself not care.
Edited by Wildfire - Jul 03 2014 at 10:06am
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