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Points: 247394 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 12:02am
Hmm I e-care 

ie I wouldnt like it if I was "hacked" and someone misrepresented me, cussed everyone out, made statements that didn't matched my beliefs, basically acted a fool

And I don't think there's a member that I wouldn't care if something happened to them
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Career wise, I care enough to protect my reputation 

I want my family happy, proud, feel comfortable enough to confide in me and have confidence in me, respect me, love me and vice versa ... so much more but yes I care
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Everyone cares. 
at one point or another ... We all do
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Points: 278957 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 4:11am
no i dont care. i cant be worried about what folks think about me. my mom is worried about that kinda thing. which is funny cause she taught me to not care... oh well.
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Points: 214955 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 4:25am
I care....I would prefer not to care but that's not how my brain works.
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Points: 59611 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 7:16am
What BB and Sang said.
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Yes, so I put my best foot forward-- online, offline, familiar, strangers, blah, blah, blah…

However, I don't control others' perception and they will believe what they want. This has been proven.
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

Or is it about not giving a damn, being who you are?
As far as this, I've witnessed that people tend to confuse their tactless existences with honesty/being "real"/being bad ass/etc.

One can be thoughtful/respectful/give a damn and still be authentic to self/others. Just sayin.

It presents as defensive, insecure and emotionally exhausting the effort people put into maintaining the facade.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Everyone cares. 
at one point or another ... We all do
yep!
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Yes, so I put my best foot forward-- online, offline, familiar, strangers, blah, blah, blah…

However, I don't control others' perception and they will believe what they want. This has been proven.
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

Or is it about not giving a damn, being who you are?
As far as this, I've witnessed that people tend to confuse their tactless existences with honesty/being "real"/being bad ass/etc.

One can be thoughtful/respectful/give a damn and still be authentic to self/others. Just sayin.

It presents as defensive, insecure and emotionally exhausting the effort people put into maintaining the facade.

This is me. I don't behave the way people think that I should, so they talk about me. No1curr.

If I act like I don't give a damn about you, its because I don't and I don't even feel like wasting my energy to fake it.

I give nary of a f*ck if my existence is seen as "tactful". I do what I want.

The only people I care about their perceptions of me are my immediate family and my closest friends and even then its limited. Cause at the end of the day I'm still gonna do what I want.
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Points: 90835 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 03 2014 at 10:05am
in my experience, the people who say they dont care, care the most.
I care, but there are times i have have to make myself not care.


Edited by Wildfire - Jul 03 2014 at 10:06am
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