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Originally posted by Joseph_Sun Joseph_Sun wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

i think it would be an issue to preserve WI or African culture, but most people that care about children marrying a certain someone don't care about culture. they care about race. it can be a regla black, a jamaican one, etc etc. 

if you are marrying someone out of your culture you need to make it important that they know your child will be absolutely immersed in it. my mixed children will be very much WI. 
they might relate more to their white side.

????? 

they will grow up west indian. it will be imprinted from their language to what they eat and what they listen to. these are just facts. 
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And if you lose your culture that's yo fault.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

these are dilemmas i hope to never encounter...bc they seem tough. thankfully coconuts are pretty much alike despite different nationalities and often race

i think anyone dating out of their culture will have problems with melding into the "predominant" culture in that family. 

your husband is a chico, no?


Is that code for Nyer? I thought he was from NY and because of her stories he sounds like Method Man.

i thought her husband was a hispanic? lol. 
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i don't get it either, joe. but to each his/her own.

i am in no way even turned on in the slightest by a white man. so it would never be a case of it just happend for me. 

but hey, if their dad was white, and they brought home white...who am i to say a darn thing. i would just have to charge it to the game.
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by Joseph_Sun Joseph_Sun wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

i think it would be an issue to preserve WI or African culture, but most people that care about children marrying a certain someone don't care about culture. they care about race. it can be a regla black, a jamaican one, etc etc. 

if you are marrying someone out of your culture you need to make it important that they know your child will be absolutely immersed in it. my mixed children will be very much WI. 
they might relate more to their white side.

????? 

they will grow up west indian. it will be imprinted from their language to what they eat and what they listen to. these are just facts. 
how you gonna force one culture on them, and deny them the other,especially with their white father in the house
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theres nothing being forced. then in that case every parent "forces" their culture on them. 
he's italian, he will very much have influence in the home. but being that i am an immigrant, my culture will be much more predominant. thats just the facts of life. there's no denying going on. 

he understands how important my culture is to me, has no qualms when we talk about family.
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

these are dilemmas i hope to never encounter...bc they seem tough. thankfully coconuts are pretty much alike despite different nationalities and often race

i think anyone dating out of their culture will have problems with melding into the "predominant" culture in that family. 

your husband is a chico, no?

idk what a chico is so im inclined to say no
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what do you do if your child just happens to enjoy the way their white side does things better?  their celebrations, music, food, etc. because they're exposed to that side as well?  white families have traditions too.

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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

these are dilemmas i hope to never encounter...bc they seem tough. thankfully coconuts are pretty much alike despite different nationalities and often race

What is a coconut, an island person? or a person of color who "acts white"

please learn meEmbarrassed
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

these are dilemmas i hope to never encounter...bc they seem tough. thankfully coconuts are pretty much alike despite different nationalities and often race

i think anyone dating out of their culture will have problems with melding into the "predominant" culture in that family. 

your husband is a chico, no?


Is that code for Nyer? I thought he was from NY and because of her stories he sounds like Method Man.


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