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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

I think the woman who jointly decided to bring the child into this world and was her parent for 2-3 years is who should be responsible.  

Absolutely. Abandoning the child when the relationship ends. That's heartless.
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They had sex imo
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


people take in stray animals that aren't related to them in any way whatsoever

knowing that this girl may soon be an orphan (her mother is quite sick and her partner dashed) ... well to me that isn't the best time to avoid responsibility

if you don't agree that's fine but that's my opinion


 
i actually do understand what you are saying.  but this line of thinking probably also explains why some would rather have an early abortion than carry to term and give the baby up for adoption...


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So if he puts the child up for adoption is that a problem? What is the cut off age to relinquish your rights without any consequence?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote niecy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 11:47am
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

yeah, the mother is not going after him, it's the state...which is the normal procedure when a mother gets govt aid

true. plus they didnt go about getting a sperm donor the proper way so technically I dont see a problem with him being put on child support
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hmmmm...i wonder.  but, i'm thinking he wouldn't be able to get out of child support at this point from giving the child up for adoption to the biological mom now.  the state sees him as the father and responsible in lieu of welfare...
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Make him pay. People need to think twice about making babies they don't care about. You don't make a baby for money or as a "favor."
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

so sperm recieved from a sperm bank should be tracked to the man and he be made to pay?  also what about adoption?  should the parents (mother or father if living) be made to pay even tho their children have been adopted?


Just because something's legal doesn't make it right. Also the difference is that with adoption the child is already here. They are just making the best of a bad situation by finding someone else to care for it when the parents can't or don't want to. But this man made a child knowing he didn't care how it would be cared for.
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