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...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....
They aren't.  They are mild mannered, soft spoken, well behaved young gentlemen.  Because they were raised right by a woman who has the intelligence, compassion, patience & reasoning to mold them into productive human beings.  not ghetto hoodrat trash!!
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I don't know why ppl think they key to raising upstanding men is to beat their asses young.

You don't think these negros you avoid in certain neighborhoods got beatings?

That ain't the way

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[QUOTE=Senior Detective]   If my boy stole, I'd make him bring it back to the store & confess to the manager, then we'd threaten him with jail if it happens again.  U can also yell at them & say how disappointed u r,  That you didn't raise them to be a jailbird cuz that's where he'll end up with actions like that.

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I agree. But the aunt does not seem like the type to have a wholesome approach to parenting anyway. Even if you're team corporal punishment, it shouldn't be like this and it should not be undermined by all this cussing. The cussing and violence are what they're teaching him about life, not how to navigate the world as a young black man with a future.

I'm sick of seeing these kinds of displays
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Jones is right.  I'm not up for that vid tonight.
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There is this saying....."those that wont hear will feel"......

Now I am sure that kid heard that shoplifting/setting someone up is wrong.......and hearing did not aid his decision making process......now with these punches upside the head maybe he will know to not shoplift/set someone up........
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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



 
...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....
They aren't.  They are mild mannered, soft spoken, well behaved young gentlemen.  Because they were raised right by a woman who has the intelligence, compassion, patience & reasoning to mold them into productive human beings.  not ghetto hoodrat trash!!

LOL
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I doubt any responsible parenting goes on in that house..
You have to be crazy to believe it does


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This starts when they're very young, and unfortunately he obviously practiced this type of behavior before. I didn't condone the level of violence, but I can understand the frustration and tremendous amount of pisstivity I would've felt if someone detained me for some cheap ass headphones someone planted on my person.

When my daughter was about 5 yrs old, my girlfriend and her daughter went to the mall. we went into a shoe store and the kids wandered over & some kinda was found these little skate board charm/toys that came with the purchase of these specific shoes. I had no clue they took the toys. We're walking around & I see them giggling and whispering...I turn around and see them with these little charms & I snatch my daughter up..and told her that she's going to jail....I promise you that little girls eyes got as big as saucer plates...She begged me not to take her back to the store.My girlfriend thought I was over reacting..I said oh hell no if I"m going to allow you to become a criminal at 5!! Well we go back to the store and tell the manager that these were taken, and he started to laugh...he goes, these are free ma'am they come inside the shoe box..

My point in saying allll of that is, if you don't nip certain behaviors in the bud, your child will be doomed to suffer a life full of hardship....which might included gettin yo head buss or a bullet.
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Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

There is this saying....."those that wont hear will feel"......

Now I am sure that kid heard that shoplifting/setting someone up is wrong.......and hearing did not aid his decision making process......now with these punches upside the head maybe he will know to not shoplift/set someone up........
thanked.

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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 


 
<span style="font-weight: bold;">...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....</span>
 

Please don't procreate if you think this is the way to go.

I have plenty mail cousins who are on successful paths and they were not treated like this.

Abandon your uterus if you're planning this ish


LOL oh but keep reaching

where did i say this would be my method of discipline?

ill wait




but u cosigning it mughty hard al up & thru this thread.  tsk tsk tsk, ur fellow virgo Nitabug will not approve of ur shenani99ans

@ eanaj, that ppl failed hi stuff is bs cuz i know plenty of ppl that stole small stuff from the grocery store or dollar store & turned out fine,  when kids are teenagers, they petty theif for the adrenaline rush & to get what they want but cant afford.  It aint like they are career criminals like Bout that life.  But even she doesnt deserve to get punched up in her face & stomped on the ground for stealing her true religions.  not at all!!!
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