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off topic, my brother does get upset that I'm still friends with his ex wife (my sister in law). He claims she's not a member of the family anymore because divorce breaks that connection. I disagree. We had lunch yesterday LOL.
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She should have never gotten involved with her brother´s friend to begin with. It's all to close to home.

Now that it´s over .. her expectation that her brother should dump him is wrong. They still have a friendship regardless.

Now if this guy had beatened her up etc ... that's when I would have expected the brother to break off the friendship with this guy.
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Its all fun and games until you guys break up. She can't honestly expect her brother to end his friendship  cause she all up in her feelings??  Relationships end, get over it. It seems to be more than he cheated....  Wait was she the sidepiece?


If the relationship ended without the cheating I would totally agree. Lets say they just grew apart or weren't feeling each other anymore, then I would expect the brother not reconsider his friendship.  Its just something about a relative feeling comfortable befriending a person who royally screwed you over that bothers me.  I don't know...


I agree with you. I would be livid if my brother or sister kept up a friendship with someone that did me dirty. I'm glad I was never put in that situation. But at the same time, folks need to know that is the risk they take when they date a sibling's friend. I always told my friends that my bro was a dog (at the time) and that I washed my hands of everything if they wished to proceed.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 7:36pm
So she's cutting her brother off over penis? lol jesus
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She needs to move on with her life as she shouldn't have gotten involved with her brother friend in the first place.
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I dated my brother's friend. My brother warned me he was no good, did I listen? No! Dude was a dog, we broke up. Warned him never to speak to me. My brother remained friends with him. He wasn't allowed to hang with my brother if I was going too. For years it was like he had a restraining order. We've both moved on but my brother does that out of respect to me. Last Christmas when I went home was the first time I spoke to him since 2008.
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Originally posted by lexis83 lexis83 wrote:

I dated my brother's friend. My brother warned me he was no good, did I listen? No! Dude was a dog, we broke up. Warned him never to speak to me. My brother remained friends with him. He wasn't allowed to hang with my brother if I was going too. For years it was like he had a restraining order. We've both moved on but my brother does that out of respect to me. Last Christmas when I went home was the first time I spoke to him since 2008.


That's actually quite decent of your brother to be sensitive to your feelings like that. I would expect my brother to do the same. True, he did warn you and you have your part in it for going ahead anyway but I can't imagine a brother not protecting his sister's feelings, especially a big brother.
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He cheated he didn't beat her, get over it. I know her feelings hurt but as long as her eye don't hurt this too shall pass. No need to ruin Easter dinner cause she wanna act like she 12. if I was her brother I would be glad her simple azz was not speaking to me, she can give him a call when she get her mind right.


Next time don;t spread it like mustard with her brothers homies.
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was the brother mad at her for dating his friend and (possibly) ruining  his friendship with the guy?

eta: I know they are still friends so it wasn't ruined, but it could have   ended another way and the brother could have lost a good friend. I think a person can be a cheater (bad boyfriend) but a good friend.


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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by lexis83 lexis83 wrote:

I dated my brother's friend. My brother warned me he was no good, did I listen? No! Dude was a dog, we broke up. Warned him never to speak to me. My brother remained friends with him. He wasn't allowed to hang with my brother if I was going too. For years it was like he had a restraining order. We've both moved on but my brother does that out of respect to me. Last Christmas when I went home was the first time I spoke to him since 2008.


That's actually quite decent of your brother to be sensitive to your feelings like that. I would expect my brother to do the same. True, he did warn you and you have your part in it for going ahead anyway but I can't imagine a brother not protecting his sister's feelings, especially a big brother.


At the very least that is what I would expect from a sibling.
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