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So if he assaulted her, stole from her, or gave her HIV would your answers be different?  Just curious.  This has opened my eyes because I really did sympathize with the girl.  Is there anything a friend could do to your family that would cause you to distance yourself from that person?
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Its all fun and games until you guys break up. She can't honestly expect her brother to end his friendship  cause she all up in her feelings??  Relationships end, get over it. It seems to be more than he cheated....  Wait was she the sidepiece?


If the relationship ended without the cheating I would totally agree. Lets say they just grew apart or weren't feeling each other anymore, then I would expect the brother not reconsider his friendship.  Its just something about a relative feeling comfortable befriending a person who royally screwed you over that bothers me.  I don't know...
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She broke sibling code....and clearly they weren't that serious.....she just sounds like she's a bit deluded....she a fool for allowing a nicca in your brother circle to be able to say he did all this shyt to yo sister....I would never......its a respect thing.....that nicca would have to be magnificent.....


I bet her brother warned he to leave dude alone....and she was like "Im grown"......
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 

They were friends before she dated him.

She should have known they would remain friends after she dated him.

She is childish and needs to get over it.


Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

before she dated him, they were friends

knowing they would remain friends is something she should've known

she needs to get over it and stop being childish.

yall in the same house or nah? LOLLOL

but yeah what they said. i don't think she is childish thoug because that is her brother she is just a little hurt. As long as my brother isn't going on double-dates with the girl he cheated on me with. i think i would get over it
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

So if he assaulted her, stole from her, or gave her HIV would your answers be different?  Just curious.  This has opened my eyes because I really did sympathize with the girl.  Is there anything a friend could do to your family that would cause you to distance yourself from that person?

offcourse my answers would be different. and it would be different also if they werent friends way before hand also
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^^^ i said it firstStern Smile
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Its all fun and games until you guys break up. She can't honestly expect her brother to end his friendship  cause she all up in her feelings??  Relationships end, get over it. It seems to be more than he cheated....  Wait was she the sidepiece?


If the relationship ended without the cheating I would totally agree. Lets say they just grew apart or weren't feeling each other anymore, then I would expect the brother not reconsider his friendship.  Its just something about a relative feeling comfortable befriending a person who royally screwed you over that bothers me.  I don't know...

i think that's key. they were friends prior to him dating her. If anything the brother should be annoyed at her for dating his friend. lol
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Originally posted by Princess_S Princess_S wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

So if he assaulted her, stole from her, or gave her HIV would your answers be different?  Just curious.  This has opened my eyes because I really did sympathize with the girl.  Is there anything a friend could do to your family that would cause you to distance yourself from that person?

offcourse my answers would be different. and it would be different also if they werent friends way before hand also


Ok, so cheating isn't as serious as the other things.  I see...

Its all the same to me. 
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I'm glad this never happened b/t my siblings and I.  Messy.
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I'd be on her side if I didn't know I'd do the same thing if it was my GF. This is why I  never allowed any of my friends to date my bros, hard as they tried. Also, I  already knew that the ones they were interested in are GREAT brothers but HORRIBLE boyfriends /hubsands. (some  not all LOL)


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