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    Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 5:01pm
I read this on a blog and I was surprised by the responses.  Most people said the girl was in the wrong, but I totally understand her point.  What do you think?


I dated one of my brother's best friends for a year and two months and broke up with him just last November. My ex has moved on and so have I but what pisses me off right now is that my brother is still friends with this dude. I'm angry at that because our relationship ended because his friend cheated on me with someone in our inner circle. I expected my brother to at least have my back and be on my side on this one but he's still hanging out with my ex and even going out with him and his new girlfriend (not the girl he cheated on me with). I confronted him some days ago and he said what we had was between us and he never got involved and their friendship is between them and I shouldn't get involved. I'm currently not on speaking terms with my brother because I feel betrayed by him. I was hurt by his friend and he would continue to be friends with him? Where's the loyalty? I've cut him out of my life until he cuts his friend out of his life. My brother is wrong for still being friends with a man that hurt his baby sister, is he not?
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 she started off by wrong by dating her brother's friend. 
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She is childish.
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She still want him or the new girl looks better......
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

 she started off by wrong by dating her brother's friend. 


That's what a lot of them are saying, but I don't get it.  Why can't two compatible adults date in spite of what relationships they have in common.  I mean its not incestuous.  I know people who have married their brother's friends.  My mom met my dad through his sister. 

Maybe I'm missing something.  The age difference between my brothers and I is so huge, so its never come up.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

She is childish.


Maybe I am too. LOL
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

 she started off by wrong by dating her brother's friend. 


That's what a lot of them are saying, but I don't get it.  Why can't two compatible adults date in spite of what relationships they have in common.  I mean its not incestuous.  I know people who have married their brother's friends.  My mom met my dad through his sister. 

Maybe I'm missing something.  The age difference between my brothers and I is so huge, so its never come up.


yeah but things are always great when it works out.  what happens when it doesnt?  people always expect bystanders to pick sides. 

i hated that all my girl friends liked my brother growing up. to this day i wont even befriend someone whose friends with my siblings.

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They were friends before she dated him.

She should have known they would remain friends after she dated him.

She is childish and needs to get over it.

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before she dated him, they were friends

knowing they would remain friends is something she should've known

she needs to get over it and stop being childish.


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Its all fun and games until you guys break up. She can't honestly expect her brother to end his friendship  cause she all up in her feelings??  Relationships end, get over it. It seems to be more than he cheated....  Wait was she the sidepiece?
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