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    Posted: Jun 04 2010 at 10:34am

has anyone in her ever broken up with someone and then got back together. do you believe that  when people who are in a relationship  breakup up  shouldnt or shouldnt get back together? I believe that when a guy breaks up with me or i break up with him i don't usually get back together with that person because i believe in moving forwards and not backwards

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2010 at 11:03am
IA! It is all about moving forward. I have been in a relationship where we broke up and got back together and in the end it's like I knew it wouldn't work but I didn't want to say I didn't try to make it work. Often its better to let go and move on. People come into your life for different reasons and a season or a lifetime.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2010 at 11:22am

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 2:02am
I am a product of the break up/make up. I broke up with m bf last yr. and we got back together after 9 mos. of him begging. But we have had issues for many yrs. before I finally had the strentgh to break up. Then I take him back.
But tonight I realized I don't think we will ever work. I think we're together out of habit and obligation. I feel like rhianna song "Stupid in Love" I think it will work if there is total 100% dedication to making it work. Anything less than 100% just move on.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 2:45am
We just had this damn thread in TTT, sheesh
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 6:50am
I don't necessarily think breaking up and getting back together with someone is moving backwards. People grow and mature and life happens so it truly depends on the two people and relationships change.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 7:31am
I did with one of my boyfriends, and regretted it. We were never compatible and looking back on things from where i am today there was no reason for me to have gotten back with him.

Every situation is different though, one size does not fit all
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 3:36pm
Move on...I've done the break up/ make up gig. 3 months in I thought to myself: I knew there was a reason that we broke up the first time and now I remember why.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2010 at 4:30pm
I did this with my ex. We broke up and got back together so many times, but i finally realized he was just running in circles. And i agree with junglebunny i don't think breaking up and getting back together is going backwards but there is some game play involved. My ex would break up with me.. go cheat with the next girl and get back with me.. So I'm not an advocate for that game anymore..
 
It would really depend on the type of situation I'm in too.. i guess.
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