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If me and my stylist are comfortable I have zero problem leaving to do errands.

I don't want to rear my children in the way white ppl do.

My community >>>>

Black folk used to watch out for each other.
Be it your own child or the child from up the street.

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i see what sandra is saying and i agree… 

no we dont care about what white people do but we have to compare and contrast to understand things sometimes 


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There was a recently released report that said black children fare worse on every metric (ie how many live in poverty, have access to certain things, etc). when compared to children of other races.

Soooooo...sandra's anecdotal observations are borne out by the research in a general sense.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

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Clearly you're still pressed.....its been a week......but cmon lets compare....I never called black folks disgusting trash or said they should be round up and shot......I said we lack professionalism......


I think many people agree with your stance Mizzsandra. But I'm pretty sure you're a professional at your job?

Unless you're an exception not the rule
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

TBH... I don't understand the mentality of the mother or stylist...Both lack basic common sense and professionalism.
 
 

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why is this thread still going?
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:


Actually. I'm angered equally by both. 

Soooo...yah. I can't bear a cape for neither of these broads.

The stylist just made it worse by sharing her tale of hood woe in great detail. She's taking heat cause the dumb asssss mother hasn't surfaced. Yet.




Meh, it's not equal to me. The mother has reached her quota of being an ain't ish person. The stylist is just hot headed and social media has been the tool for her demise.

Are you saying you're more bothered by the stylist?

I personally can't take a side. Both of em appear equally ratchet tbhEmbarrassed
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i see what sandra is saying and i agree… 

no we dont care about what white people do but we have to compare and contrast to understand things sometimes 




Look many of us aren't idiots. We see black people on WSSH and MTO acting a fool. Yes that ish is sad as heck. Yes we can see it a lot in real life. But at the same time and a fool is always seen faster than a wise man.
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I said a segment of our population are a particular brand of disgusting and carry themselves in a deplorable manner. You jumped on me because I singled out a portion of our group for behavior

How is that much different than saying "Its an observation I made and being that I have experience worked with all races.....and I made it.....and our sense of normal some bullshyt"???

Seems to me like you're the one backpedaling

Or were you just caught up in the heat of the moment and wanted to attack me for something you felt a similar way about? You sound confused. But it's okay, you live and you learn. No worries Tongue

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

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Clearly you're still pressed.....its been a week......but cmon lets compare....I never called black folks disgusting trash or said they should be round up and shot......I said we lack professionalism......
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idk...sitting in the shop all day is part of our culture...maybe times have changed but when i was in say 4th grade, the stylists did not care if moms stepped out.  there were no stragglers in the shop or men.  it was full of a few familiar women, and everyone in the neighborhood knew each other through at least one other person.  everyone just sat around did hair, laughed, read, watched the tv, etc.  stylists also took a lot of breaks themselves.  it wasn't like being dropped off at Supercuts.

but you get what you pay for. if you want a more professional environment then you don't accept that from parents, and also give speedier service.  

the lady from the OP didn't seem bothered by the child being dropped off, only that she wasn't picked up.

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Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:


Actually. I'm angered equally by both. 

Soooo...yah. I can't bear a cape for neither of these broads.

The stylist just made it worse by sharing her tale of hood woe in great detail. She's taking heat cause the dumb asssss mother hasn't surfaced. Yet.




Meh, it's not equal to me. The mother has reached her quota of being an ain't ish person. The stylist is just hot headed and social media has been the tool for her demise.


Are you saying you're more bothered by the stylist?

I personally can't take a side. Both of em appear equally ratchet tbhEmbarrassed


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NO the mother is mainly to blame. The stylist has just lost more money than her doing that child's hair for free. If you're a hot head that's one thing, but if you're a terrible business woman I lose respect for you.
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