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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

lol I had a debit card around his age w/ no job

did you also have overall foul behavior?
 
Naw not at all...I had a small outing out stage, but it wasn't this bad..
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Exactly, I got a bank account at 14, but my black ass had a job at 14. My first account was a pass book savings and my mother did not put money in it. I didn't expect her to do it either.

I don't know why people think there is a provision in parenting that requires you to provide the latest and greatest.
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Last night I was just thinking to myself that I wonder if people would send their unruly children to a camp where they had to live like the slaves did for like 3 months (including working in the fields).

Anyway, counseling might be a good idea to get to the root of the issue.

In the mean time he should be on serious punishment. Don't just take away the fun stuff...start taking away the basics. Make that negro sleep on the floor with just a blanket. Have him wear the same outfit everyday. Only let him eat bland oatmeal and veggies. He might rethink his attitude.


that reminds me of when I was younger and acted up, EVERYTHING was taken away. it was called 'square 1'.... in my room, i just had a bed and a couple blankets. my meals were served in my room. i had 15min to shower. i was not allowed to pick out my clothes, it was chosen for me. i had to write on certain topics, like my behavior. or do extra hw that was so graciously asked for by my mother from my teachers. i had to earn everything back.
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if you don't know why he is acting out I don't really know how you can help him, to be honest


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Oh and no, there isn't any family he can be sent to and he does have a dad but he really isn't much of one. Even though they live in the same house.....
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Last night I was just thinking to myself that I wonder if people would send their unruly children to a camp where they had to live like the slaves did for like 3 months (including working in the fields).

Anyway, counseling might be a good idea to get to the root of the issue.

In the mean time he should be on serious punishment. Don't just take away the fun stuff...start taking away the basics. Make that negro sleep on the floor with just a blanket. Have him wear the same outfit everyday. Only let him eat bland oatmeal and veggies. He might rethink his attitude.


that reminds me of when I was younger and acted up, EVERYTHING was taken away. it was called 'square 1'.... in my room, i just had a bed and a couple blankets. my meals were served in my room. i had 15min to shower. i was not allowed to pick out my clothes, it was chosen for me. i had to write on certain topics, like my behavior. or do extra hw that was so graciously asked for by my mother from my teachers. i had to earn everything back.


Girl! I have been there. My foster mom was not playing...she was not about that "let kids talk crazy and run my house" life.

Came home one day, door was taken off my room. Queen bed was replaced with a baby twin with a sheet and a blanket. Everything was GONE.

Bet you I learned.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Last night I was just thinking to myself that I wonder if people would send their unruly children to a camp where they had to live like the slaves did for like 3 months (including working in the fields).

Anyway, counseling might be a good idea to get to the root of the issue.

In the mean time he should be on serious punishment. Don't just take away the fun stuff...start taking away the basics. Make that negro sleep on the floor with just a blanket. Have him wear the same outfit everyday. Only let him eat bland oatmeal and veggies. He might rethink his attitude.


that reminds me of when I was younger and acted up, EVERYTHING was taken away. it was called 'square 1'.... in my room, i just had a bed and a couple blankets. my meals were served in my room. i had 15min to shower. i was not allowed to pick out my clothes, it was chosen for me. i had to write on certain topics, like my behavior. or do extra hw that was so graciously asked for by my mother from my teachers. i had to earn everything back.


Girl! I have been there. My foster mom was not playing...she was not about that "let kids talk crazy and run my house" life.

Came home one day, door was taken off my room. Queen bed was replaced with a baby twin with a sheet and a blanket. Everything was GONE.

Bet you I learned.


lol! yep i learned too.

i had a door though. but it was locked on the outside and i couldn't get out. unless i was let out by her
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All they had to do was whoop me...
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Last night I was just thinking to myself that I wonder if people would send their unruly children to a camp where they had to live like the slaves did for like 3 months (including working in the fields).

Anyway, counseling might be a good idea to get to the root of the issue.

In the mean time he should be on serious punishment. Don't just take away the fun stuff...start taking away the basics. Make that negro sleep on the floor with just a blanket. Have him wear the same outfit everyday. Only let him eat bland oatmeal and veggies. He might rethink his attitude.


that reminds me of when I was younger and acted up, EVERYTHING was taken away. it was called 'square 1'.... in my room, i just had a bed and a couple blankets. my meals were served in my room. i had 15min to shower. i was not allowed to pick out my clothes, it was chosen for me. i had to write on certain topics, like my behavior. or do extra hw that was so graciously asked for by my mother from my teachers. i had to earn everything back.


Girl! I have been there. My foster mom was not playing...she was not about that "let kids talk crazy and run my house" life.

Came home one day, door was taken off my room. Queen bed was replaced with a baby twin with a sheet and a blanket. Everything was GONE.

Bet you I learned.


lol! yep i learned too.

i had a door though. but it was locked on the outside and i couldn't get out. unless i was let out by her


Oh see my foster mom couldn't do that because it would have been against the law. But she knew me well enough to know that the lack of privacy would get to me way more.

She would also make me get in bed with the lights off as early as possible...if I was done with chores and homework at 7pm then that was my bed time.

Sometimes you have to get crazy on these children.
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are other things suffering as well?
his schoolwork? what kind of friends does he have?
have you guys spoken to his teachers? 

what is his normal day like? is he doing drugs?
i think you can try to pinpoint what is going on with him. 
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