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tropical-punch 
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 Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:29pm |
 BeatriceBean wrote:
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Girl, IDK why he is acting out. IDK what could be going on with him. |
He won't talk to you? |
I'm going to call him tomorrow and see what's going on.
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Ladybird0724
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:33pm |
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my BIL went thru that when he was a teenager. didn't do ish for him as he is about 29 and in jail currently for multiple probabtion violations. i have known a couple other teens that have done it and had various degrees of success
i think it can work in some cases, but there has to be follow-up and consistency at home after the experience. parents, and kids, cant fall back into the same patterns of communication and action and expect for things to get better.
i do think its best used as a last resort.
does he have a father figure? is this behavior sudden? have they thought about counseling?
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:34pm |
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does he have a job? if not, why does he have a debit card? |
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:36pm |
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He needs a grown man to put his dick in the dirt. Boys get too mannish around that age and start smellin themselves. All teens test their parents, but if he is disrespectful day in and day out, that is a big problem.
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:37pm |
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lol I had a debit card around his age w/ no job
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:39pm |
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lol I had a debit card around his age w/ no job |
did you also have overall foul behavior?
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:39pm |
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Last night I was just thinking to myself that I wonder if people would send their unruly children to a camp where they had to live like the slaves did for like 3 months (including working in the fields).
Anyway, counseling might be a good idea to get to the root of the issue.
In the mean time he should be on serious punishment. Don't just take away the fun stuff...start taking away the basics. Make that negro sleep on the floor with just a blanket. Have him wear the same outfit everyday. Only let him eat bland oatmeal and veggies. He might rethink his attitude.
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:40pm |
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does he have a job? if not, why does he have a debit card?
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No job. IDK why he has a debit card either. I didn't get one until I had a job at 16
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:43pm |
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That lil nicca would a have super nintendo with one controller, a brick nokia, and $5 a week. And that would be to supplement the bag lunch his ass would be making.
I wish I would. Call me at MY job, and curse ME out? Lawd, and you are at home finagling my resources? Your momma is better than me.
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 12:44pm |
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Kids get too much without having to earn it. I ain't get a checking account until I graduated high school and had my own money to open one. When you spoil children, they act rotten.
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