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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 23 2013 at 8:19pm
Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Anyway I think the reason black women try to be white is because it's what most black men prefer.
LOLCry

Edited by india100 - Jul 23 2013 at 10:43pm
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LoL @ "Ain't  no white man wakin you up every mornin tellin you yo hair is ugly!"
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote SweetNovember* Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 23 2013 at 8:21pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Anyway I think the reason black women try to be white is because it's what most black men prefer.


so you're saying black men are the main cause for this in the community?
Well you're saying exactly what he is saying


I'm just saying. Women try to please their men first and foremost.
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Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

I don't know why folks refuse to blame the original oppressor...smh...

I don't think it's a refusal of blaming yt .. It's just .. now that you have this knowledge ..what is your excuse.. If the oppressor is responsible for the bullsh*t why are you still letting him have control over your thoughts ( concerning your hair , skin and beauty).
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lol @ "just in case you didnt know, you're going thru an ugly phase" Cry
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (7) Thanks(7)   Quote ms_wonderland Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 23 2013 at 10:14pm
tbh, no non-black person ever made me feel badly about my hair.  in elementary, yes i did encounter asian and white kids who were fascinated and asked several questions, wanted to touch it, etc. but never said anything bad.  they were just ignorant little kids and i ignored them.  however, my male black cousins and boys in the neighborhood talked all kinds of shyt about our hair, darker girls skin color, etc.  it hurts when they do it.

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IA with ms.wonderland.  I actually hear more sh*t from men than women.  Yes, I been called things by black women but I got the majority of the "u need to do something to your hair" and "she going thru the ugly phase" and "she'd be pretty if she had some hair" from men.   I fully believe that phrase "going thru the ugly phase" was first uttered by a man to a woman.   What man is gone tell another man that?  He'll say it to a woman tho.


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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Lol at min 8 he's saying the exact thing Femme said.

He puts the blame squarely on the shoulders of black women which is weird.
But probably speaks to the lack of male presence in the black community.

The end he's talking about loving ourself bc we're beautiful and all that .

I clicked wasn't that serious

He's angry at the fact new naturals refer to their hair as in the ugly phase when they are growing it out.
But saying black women are the cause for self hate within the community is ridiculous



Which femme? Femmemichelle?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 23 2013 at 11:30pm
I only scan a few of his ignorant words to justify his love for white women .
The fool want have worry about walking pass one in the night . They will muder is black butt and get away with it .
 
" I will not reflect my racist or sexist anxieties onto them as though they were strangers walking alongside me in the night"
 
 
 
 
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Lol never mind. Yes he is saying what I said at 8:00. I am not the only person on here who's had more derogatory race based comments coming from black people than from white people. That doesn't take away from white people suffering from an extreme case of ignorance and privilege, but if you're contributing to the deluded and dysfunctional state of our community, YOU GET NO PASS FROM ME BECAUSE YOU'RE BLACK. 

If anything, I'm more pissed at the black people in our community screaming for equality, yet degrading and denigrating those in the community who look less like their oppressors. 

Ain't that some sh*t? I'm a coon for finding a nonblack person who appreciates my blackness instead of settling for a black person who wishes my blackness would dampen itself. Yall can get the fukc outta here with that logic LOL
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