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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 11 2013 at 1:56pm
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Are mixed people supposed to hate themeselves or just the white part?


BHM would prefer mixed people to hate themselves but hating their white side is just as good.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 11 2013 at 2:02pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

Are mixed people supposed to hate themeselves or just the white part?


BHM would prefer mixed people to hate themselves but hating their white side is just as good.


And therein lies the rub.

Someone's always too happy to tell you what you should think, feel, how you should act, what you should reject, what you should embrace, who you should love, who you shouldn't, etc.  In the end, it gets monotonous and is an endless rat race that never amounts to more than turning yourself inside out to please the masses who aren't going out of their way to help you anyway. If you over achieve then you want to be like them, if you under achieve then your selling your race & your ancestors short.

You can't please the world so please stop trying. Pleasing the world = denying your own desires because you're putting someone else's concerns above your own (regardless of whether you try to please the white or black world). Make yourself happy and stop worrying about what other dusty ass people think - regardless of their skin color.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 11 2013 at 3:35pm
I agree completely, Model!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 11 2013 at 3:42pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

Are mixed people supposed to hate themeselves or just the white part?


BHM would prefer mixed people to hate themselves but hating their white side is just as good.


And therein lies the rub.




that isn't true, for e.g, lite brite is mixed she says it a lot no one bashes her for being so. People may call her a qwhite woman, but those are usually her e-friends.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 1:16pm
I grew up around nigguhs and crackas. 
Nigguhs are more interesting and fun.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 3:12pm


Some weekday drama

Edited by AwesomeAries - May 14 2013 at 3:15pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 3:27pm
Interesting topic !
 
I grew up around blacks and what not. Never ever looked up to or desired to be like whites don't even want to be bothered by them.
 
I love my colored peoples from all over the world.
 
However, I learned that you can never satisfy people. If I say I am Cuban then I am denying my blackness. Never figured that one out ....Wacko
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 3:30pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

I've met black people who didn't grow up around white people AT ALL when I went to college. As in, from rural towns in the South where there were literally NO white people IRL but only seen through media. And I found the opposite to be true. They tend to not want to be bothered with white people on any level and see them as some funky oddity. It tends to be those who are actually exposed via real life interactions who harbor the views you expressed.

I seen this too and they are almost militant (not sure in your case)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 3:39pm
I'm often confused by racist black or white christians who believe they have a heavenly hope.
Do they believe their heaven will be as segregated as their churches?? Stern Smile


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2013 at 6:20pm
I grew up and went to school in mostly black/Latino (NYC) and mixed (LA County, SoCal) neighborhoods.

I ain't idolized no one, esp not yts, although I have had and still do have good friends, both black and yt.
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