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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote BrownQtee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 1:54pm
Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Ooooooooh...did your baby daddy give you the pic or did you steal it from his phone or something.

Are you and your baby daddy even together for you to be going thru some mess like that? Did you get revenge on him too?

So many questions lol.


The first time I was looking through the phone and secretly texted it to my self then deleted the evidence.
I tried contacting the girl so we could converse.
I was told they didn't talk, but everytime I tried contacting her (3 times) he knew about it, so that didn't add up to me.
So I posted the picture so she would have to contact me, so I could find out what was going on between them because he was trying to be with me and her at the same time.
He had her brain washed to not speak to me.

Then we were supposed to be together but I had my suspicions but he was living at my parents house with us at the time, so it was very hard to read him so I needed to talk to the girl.

He decided to stop messing with her...
Lawd. I do hope you see the light one day, hun. He needs to go.
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Where she f*cked up was letting a dude take a picture of her like that. Let's flip this. The dude is the one she should be mad at because she let him take the pic and he gave his baby mama access to it. His baby mama doesn't owe the new chick any type of loyalty. Stern Smile


Now that we know this tidbit of info, the baby daddy aint shyt (squared)..
But the thing with relationships like this is that the baby daddy has loyalty for no one but himself. 
Just like he told the OP to post the picture again, he can damn shol' turn around and do the same thing to the OP (i.e. give the new chick explicit pictures of the baby mama).
He is using these women because they are letting him.  They are not making him accountable for anything he does.  He can get what he wants from these women; stay at the baby mama house while messing with another chick.  He is doing his own thing.  The OP doesn't know what he is telling the new chick and the new chick probably doesn't know what is going on between the OP and the baby daddy.  These women would rather love or tolerate this man and his bullshyt than to love themselves enough to not play his games.  It ain't about the OP having loyalty for the new chick, it's about nipping the bullshyt in the bud all together, eliminating the source of the problem, which is the baby daddy.  Besides, he's the one who introduced a third party into whatever "situation" they had.  If she meant more to him, this story would probably be different.
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Where she f*cked up was letting a dude take a picture of her like that. Let's flip this. The dude is the one she should be mad at because she let him take the pic and he gave his baby mama access to it. His baby mama doesn't owe the new chick any type of loyalty. Stern Smile
 
I agree with this. You let some nicca take a pic with nutt on your face, and you get mad at chick who aired it out? Girl bye.
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The other girl didn't have any respect for the OP or her situation so she can't expect respect in return. Her pic was in the phone of a man who was living with another woman. The other girl knew that man wasn't shyt. She needs to address him for letting her picture get out, not the woman. Stern Smile
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Where she f*cked up was letting a dude take a picture of her like that. Let's flip this. The dude is the one she should be mad at because she let him take the pic and he gave his baby mama access to it. His baby mama doesn't owe the new chick any type of loyalty. Stern Smile



Um wtf....has nothing to do with loyalty.

Ever hear of respect for yourself, maturity, human decency


Nope but I've heard of irony. Sleepy


Edited by SweetNovember* - Jan 22 2013 at 2:36pm
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Where she f*cked up was letting a dude take a picture of her like that. Let's flip this. The dude is the one she should be mad at because she let him take the pic and he gave his baby mama access to it. His baby mama doesn't owe the new chick any type of loyalty. Stern Smile



Um wtf....has nothing to do with loyalty.

Ever hear of respect for yourself, maturity, human decency


Nope but I've heard of irony. Sleepy

oh, the irony in what...
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

The other girl didn't have any respect for the OP or her situation so she can't expect respect in return. Her pic was in the phone of a man who was living with another woman. The other girl knew that man wasn't shyt. She needs to address him for letting her picture get out, not the woman. Stern Smile

From what I gather OP contacted the girl though not vice versa. OP should have been confronting her baby daddy not the girl. Especially since she said he cheated more the once if I'm not mistaken. OP is the fool for letting them both disrespect her.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


they should have never gave yall horoscopes....my gawd




Or reproductive organs.
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but all this talk about bad karma and saying that the chick could lose her job...
like honestly, many times those private pictures don't stay private. thats the risk you take. 

yeah, she probably shouldn't have posted them. 
but its not THAT bad. calm down. 
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

but all this talk about bad karma and saying that the chick could lose her job...
like honestly, many times those private pictures don't stay private. thats the risk you take. 

yeah, she probably shouldn't have posted them. 
but its not THAT bad. calm down. 



she couldn't see him take the pic,  with all that white stuff in her eyes thoughLOL
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