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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2014 at 2:30pm
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some people just don't "click" no?

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I had all white friends until 10th grade until I met my ex husband. I had very few Black friends in my classes all my life.I was bullied all thru elementary school. I befriended whowhoever had common interests that didn't pick on me. I didn't feel the need to attempt to befriend Black folks just because they were Black. If you're cool with me, I'm cool with me. Race has never been a requirement.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2014 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Dapheny Dapheny wrote:

some people just don't "click" no?

that person is so uglyDead
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2014 at 2:34pm
you would be too if you were making faces

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The only time I had all white friends was at theriding barn and that's because there was literally 0 black people there. Other than that, the majority of my friends have been Black with some white Hispanic and Asian sprinkled in.  I just have more in common w/black people. 

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what does he/she look like without making a face? 
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all of my close friends are black. but most of my weekend activities are with a majority non-black crowd (not just white though). just because most of my black friends don't find enjoyment in what i like to do for fun. i like to go to live shows/raves and do outdoorsy things. most of my black friends just like to go to clubs/bars. that got old for me a looong time ago. so it's simply because i don't share the same extracurricular interests as my black friends.  

my nonblack friends=weekend friends. 
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And if you live in a place where there is an abundance of Black women who don't have concerns about the newest Baby Phat dress, when their baby daddies are getting released or them actually getting a job affecting their food stamps that they sell, consider yourself lucky. I live in San Antonio, TX. It's not a lot of us here and the majority of the natives are on some different ish.

If I were still in Chicago, things would be different.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2014 at 2:43pm
Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

And if you live in a place where there is an abundance of Black women who don't have concerns about the newest Baby Phat dress, when their baby daddies are getting released or them actually getting a job affecting their food stamps that they sell, consider yourself lucky. I live in San Antonio, TX. It's not a lot of us here and the majority of the natives are on some different ish.

If I were still in Chicago, things would be different.
LOL oh cream, we're not doing this today.  kEmbarrassed
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2014 at 2:43pm
Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

And if you live in a place where there is an abundance of Black women who don't have concerns about the newest Baby Phat dress, when their baby daddies are getting released or them actually getting a job affecting their food stamps that they sell, consider yourself lucky. I live in San Antonio, TX. It's not a lot of us here and the majority of the natives are on some different ish.

If I were still in Chicago, things would be different.
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