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I dated a white guy in HS. He only liked women of color. He played guitar, rock music and drove a white boy pick up truck lol. He was so nice. I messed it up when I went to college though.

I also dated a Mexican man. Messed that up too smh.

My family was cool with it. As were my best friends. I don't know if I got side eyes from strangers because I never pay people mind when I'm out and about.
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I silently judged Black men and women who date out of their race. However its a silent judgement becaude I have to admit Im often proven wrong about whatever I assumed about the person. So I'm starting to re-evaluate, I personally wouldn't date a white guy (other races are up in the air), But I try hard not to judge others who do. I don't know them or their relationship.
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I've never dated outside my race but the only thing that bothers me is when my friends who do it act like we can't talk about white folks no more.  Like I gotta be careful what/how I comment on something.  That's the stuff I don't like.  I'm not rude, I'm not talking about white folks in front of your clear S.O. but when it's just us out for drinks and something comes out, don't always come with that defensive BS.  
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Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

I've never dated outside my race but the only thing that bothers me is when my friends who do it act like we can't talk about white folks no more.  Like I gotta be careful what/how I comment on something.  That's the stuff I don't like.  I'm not rude, I'm not talking about white folks in front of your clear S.O. but when it's just us out for drinks and something comes out, don't always come with that defensive BS.  

HA! That's funny. I've been with my husband for almost 10 years and have two kids. I still talk sh*t about white people ALL THE TIME. My excuse being, he's from a different country. I had to stop though because one time I said something about how our oldest better not come home with some trashy ass white woman. My husband was not pleased and asked that I just stop with it. Now I just make sure he's not in hearing distance.
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Ladies who say hell to the nope, do you feel like when women do it they have given up on black men?
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Originally posted by JulieGianni JulieGianni wrote:

I married interracially.  My experience of other peoples' reactions has been less "black men ain't sh*t" and more of "you know you're still black."

The assumption being that I will benefit from his white male privilege and some how forget what it's like to be "black". Wacko


Why get a white man in order to ilicit this reaction when you can simply do something such as read a book.  Yeah my classmates growing up were not savory charactersErmm
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Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

I was married to a Dominican (not a different race), but i still got flak from "regular Black" people.


Some friends of mine have married/dated non-AA blacks and get this.  I guess the assumption is that all non-AA black men want 5 wives or somethingWacko
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Ladies who say hell to the nope, do you feel like when women do it they have given up on black men?

in a majority of the cases ive come across, yes.

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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:


Like always say in these IR threads - leave the flippin country. It's the only real way to be .. free. The WORLD is your oyster and you are worried about what these backward folks think of your love life!

The wholllllle rest of the world (at least 95% of it and I have visited 48 countries so far) does not give a rat's a** who you choose to be with. It's the AA community that will mainly mess you over if you do something 'out of order'. You gotta 'conform'.

My ONLY regret about moving to Europe ... is that I didn't do it 20 years ago.

Either leave ... or you will have to stomach these AA folks trailing behind you trying to tell you who you can or cannot be with .. for the rest of your life. I am not kidding.

There's no end to it. So grow a thick skin.



Daaaaag Print, chill.  I have stopped giving craps about altering my life for the benefit of others so there's no anger hereLOL
I just thought it would be cool to get other perspectives on this. Smile
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Ladies who say hell to the nope, do you feel like when women do it they have given up on black men?

in a majority of the cases ive come across, yes.


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