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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

This isn't a "black men ain't sh!t" thread and if you you have an issue with IRR click the red X you troll.

To people who have or are dating interracially, have you had the feeling that people have automatically assume that you have sworn off black men?  

 
No idea. But people automatically assumed I was a prostitute. It was short-lived. I doubt very much that  I would date outside of my race again.

whatttt??? did anyone say anything to you directly? Was there a big age difference?

 
We were the same age....
yeah, people kept staring, and one night we went to a club and were walking back, and a group of men said something that made me realise they thought i was prostituting ---it was after 3am, i dunno if thats why. I had on nothing trashy/skimpy --jeans and a tank-top and sandals, hair in a bun.

I cried.... I didn't say anything until we got back to the hotel (we were spending the weekend at a resort). I couldn't stop crying. I felt like they had punched me in the stomach. Horrible feeling Everywhere we went i/we kept getting stared down and analyzed. I had no idea people here had a big deal with a black woman with a non-black man.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Another assumption is that you only date white men (or white women).
 

My brother brought home some white chick and we thought he'd crossed over forever. He married a black woman who we can't stand smh





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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Another assumption is that you only date white men (or white women).
 
My brother brought home some white chick and we thought he'd crossed over forever. He married a black woman who we can't stand smh
Karma in action.
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I'm all for love.

But I subconciously low key side eyed friends that have married certain types of men, and I think its a little more so when its a certain type of white man. I mean these are beautiful, educated and accomplished black women that could have been with much better looking/kept up men but are walkin around with some scrubbish dirty looking white men.

But I don't need to understand cuz its not my life so meh. If they're happy then that's all that matters.

Sidenote: I've gotten the "You're gonna marry a white man" from my Caribbean family and its made me feel all types of ways. What the hell does that even mean? Is that a diss or a compliment or what???? I'm not even checking for white men like that.

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no. but i dont pay that much attention to what ppl think of me and what im doing.
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Never got weird looks, actually the boyfriend is the one who gets looks from black men or women, as if those people were saying "why is she with him?". But I am not African American and I think some people by looking at me or hearing me talking know that, so maybe that's why no one judges me.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Ive only had 1 negative incident in person from AA men . I've gotten few sh*tty message online but otherwise nah. As I've said before ww have been the most salty. Maybe its a regional thing
Some ww have gotten up in arms when wm showed interest in me.  They would say slick comments like, "IDK why they are attracted to you." or "IDK how you get so many men."  I'm hot that's why. EmbarrassedLOL
Then again some bw get up in arms when bm show interest in ww.  
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Never got weird looks, actually the boyfriend is the one who gets looks from black men or women, as if those people were saying "why is she with him?". But I am not African American and I think some people by looking at me or hearing me talking know that, so maybe that's why no one judges me.
Are you African? From the islands? From SA?
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Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Another assumption is that you only date white men (or white women).
 
My brother brought home some white chick and we thought he'd crossed over forever. He married a black woman who we can't stand smh
Karma in action.
 
Karma for what????
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I never dated outside of my race.
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