BLACK WOMEN WAKE THE F UP!

I just read the thread http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/why-do-poor-black-women-keep-having-babies_topic355448.html Nobody was getting to the root problem. This thread is to discuss what’s causing the TRUE destruction of black people! The real problem is the lack of family structure and lack of experience/ exposure. Black kids have no proper example of what a relationship is suppose to be. It’s a cycle, they see their fathers walk out and their mothers keep meeting losers and having kids! Boys grow up to emulate their fathers and the girls end up becoming like their mothers. Kids that grow up in single mother households don't do as well as 2 parent households for obvious reasons. 1. The mother has to work harder to support the family so isn't home enough and kids are raised in front of tv looking at people on BET as role models 2. The more people you have in your corner supporting you the better. But, when you have selfish parents (mothers poppin out babies and fathers leaving) that makes you question yourself at a young age (low self esteem). I'll stop but the list goes on! BLACK WOMEN STOP HAVING CHILDREN WITH MEN THAT DONT WANT YOU! IF HE CAN'T PUT A RING ON IT, BUT CAN MAKE A LIFE LONG COMMITMENT TO GET YOU PREGNANT.... THAT IS A RED FLAG!!!

Your target audience probably won't read your post and screaming at them really doesn't help.

Blaming and shaming will get us no where. Teach one, help one. Find a disadvantaged young black man or woman in your community( or the one next to it) and help them personally. Yelling on the internet does nothing. Be active in person instead telling people what they should do on the internet, in billboards. It does nothing.

kkscottdale wrote: Your target audience probably won't read your post and screaming at them really doesn't help. Blaming and shaming will get us no where. Teach one, help one. Find a disadvantaged young black man or woman in your community( or the one next to it) and help them personally. Yelling on the internet does nothing. Be active in person instead telling people what they should do on the internet, in billboards. It does nothing.

I actually like this thread.

Stop blaming single mothers. My mother raised us right and we didn't get our damn influence and role models off of BET. We had more sense than that...

Edited by Lonisha87 - Mar 06 2013 at 2:01pm