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op is your plea for the black women here to lead the way?  if so, does that then imply that we show our butt cheeks? LOL
 
i guess i just don't get the correlation between black women who probably don't dress skank to begin with leading black women who do anywhere...simply by dressing a certain way...


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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

But still....why do you care so much to the point where you had to make basically the same thread within 2 weeks of eachother? It's summer time and it's hot as balls, so you're gonna see more of everyone. I can understand if this was about girls wearing booty shorts in an office setting or like ^^ said, a funeral or something of that nature where it's best to dress conservatively, but if they're just chilling minding their own business, why cant you?
the same reason you dont!
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These threads always deliver.LOL
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

I don't understand how dressing a certain way= respect or respecting yourself.
I could dress modestly and still be a ho.. Clothes are not going to change anything.
Ok are you saying -clothes dont communicate anything? Please tell this to the industry known as FASHION,
-clothes are part of every human culture it all says something
 
 
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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

But still....why do you care so much to the point where you had to make basically the same thread within 2 weeks of eachother? It's summer time and it's hot as balls, so you're gonna see more of everyone. I can understand if this was about girls wearing booty shorts in an office setting or like ^^ said, a funeral or something of that nature where it's best to dress conservatively, but if they're just chilling minding their own business, why cant you?
the same reason you dont!

You care so much because you believe that women can make the decision to wear as little or as many clothes as they please and not be disrespected or talked down to because of it?

Well, that doesnt make much sense. The threads wouldnt have been made if that were the reason.

If you dont want to have your motivations questioned, you probably shouldnt make threads here. 


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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

But still....why do you care so much to the point where you had to make basically the same thread within 2 weeks of eachother? It's summer time and it's hot as balls, so you're gonna see more of everyone. I can understand if this was about girls wearing booty shorts in an office setting or like ^^ said, a funeral or something of that nature where it's best to dress conservatively, but if they're just chilling minding their own business, why cant you?
the same reason you dont!

You care so much because you believe that women can make the decision to wear as little or as many clothes as they please and not be disrespected or talked down to because of it?

Well, that doesnt make much sense. The threads wouldnt have been made if that were the reason.

If you dont want to have your motivations questioned, you probably shouldnt make threads here. 
What? I dont understand?
 I made the tread becacuse I want to inspire changeStar 
this is not my problem I have other problems.... LOL
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Like everyone else here I have the right to make as many threads on any topic I choose...  What's the issue and I wonder why you are taking this so personally -Do you walk around with your butt cheeks showing? You are doing you RIGHT? whatever?

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How does one inspire change by talking down to people? No, I am not someone who wears shorts that doesnt cover their ass, but if I was, how exactly would this exchange be "inspiring change" within me? You make multiple threads judging other women, then try to get defensive when everyone isnt gung-ho for your respectability politics? How about you be the change you want to see and stop advertising spots on your bandwagon.
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I am the change I want to see~ how is this thread putting women down?
-To change a problem you have to define a problem accoring to you there is NO Problem! so what exactally are you protesting in my thread about?
How does change happen? At least I got you thinking, maybe one of thoese thoughts will be helpful if not for you then someone else
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Are yall done fighting? Anyway the most common offense I see every day is girls with flat backs wearing anything high waisted. It makes me sad :(
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